Haven’t posted here in a long time but have been reading threads almost daily. I would like to get some advice/support/be berated - whatever. There always seems to be a good amount of clear thinking on this board and I need that now.
Let me start by saying I hardly ever drink. I never drink at home except when friends are over. Maybe once a week. Then I often have only 2 or 3 drinks.
BUT, once in a while I get completely out of it. This only happens about once a year or so. And it’s gotten less. I black out, get aggressive, do stupid things. And I never know when it is going to happen. I sometimes get a bit drunk and am perfectly fine.
It happened again on Thursday. This time was the worst. I’m almost too embarrassed to say what happened. I discharged my weapon at home. Scared the living shit out of my family. Drove the car into a wall and got arrested. Spent the night in jail and got out on bail Friday morning.
This was a real wake up call. I clearly have underlying aggression issues. It might be genetic? Both my parents were alcoholics and both died because of it. I thought I was rational enough to keep it from happening to me. But clearly there comes a point that I cannot control myself.
I’ve decided that the only real answer is not to drink at all.
Will that make all the problems go away? I’m not sure but at least I will be rational and not so drunk I cannot think.
I’ve looked up AA meetings in the area but I feel almost silly going. Not sure if it is the answer for me. Any thoughts from anyone? Where else can I go, what else should I consider?
Most importantly how do I fix what I did? What actions can I take to show my family that I can change. I’ve said I will but talk is cheap, as they say.