I am the poster child for a ‘decent guitars make it easier to learn’. I was stuck on a plateau for about a year but now I am up climbing the mountains.
As for the pain of being a newbie…if you hate C wait til you get to F!!
It took me about month to get to the point where I could play recognisable 3 chord songs. I fat fingered for several months. I still often hit a string that I am not fretting.
Tip 1: Single note melodies
The book that I learned from had me alternate between playing little single string melodies and learning chords. Aside from being a handy way to learn the notes that you are playing, it is satisfying to play little tunes - even if its just yankee doodle.
Tip 2: Choose the right songs
I don’t think the beatles ever wrote anything that has less than about 6 chords and they rarely used any plain chords. Set your sights a little lower and aspire to something easier than the beatles
Pretty much anyone else. “Peaceful easy feeling” (G, Em, A7, D) was the first thing where I really felt I could play something but there is plenty of stuff with just G, C & D.
Tip 3: Get lessons.
I am having lessons now and I am learning lots of simple blues riffs (like Jimmy Reed stuff). I wish I had known them a year ago. My wife says 'Wow! You are getting really good!" but I am playing really simple blues progressions (try it - on: the A string play, 2-2-4-4-5-5 : you’ll feel like a genius (I know I do!).
Tip 4: Play scales
It took me forever to be able to think in the guitar-ese. I still want to translate into piano and back all the time, but at least, now, I know that if I have an E, I know where where to find another one now. Finally learning scales did it for me.
Last tip.
At some point you’ll find yourself on a plateau. You’ll know all the basic chords and will be able play a fair few songs but just don’t seemed to be getting any better. That’s the time to shopping.
My new guitar is such a joy to play. I can play for 2 or 3 hours with out my fingers hurting. Chord changes are easier and suddenly I can play barre chords after a year of trying and failing.
I hope you have as much fun as I am and make sure you check back in with a report!