Subject: Victems and Victemhood.
I was driving home today, and my mind wandered. (Fortunately it came back) Usually when my mind wanders I get a meandering course of thoughts. I’ve tryed to straighten this course of thoughts for you.
There were a bunch of people crossing against the green, and I was thinking about how it would be a good idea if a ran them over to teach them a lesson, but my Spoil sport internal voice prevented me from doing so. Instead I thought about what would have happened had I ran them over.
Undoubtably, there would be protests, poster drawings, “Friends” who had never spoken to the “Road-kill” would be on tv villifying me as someone who took away their dearest friend. Nowhere in the consequences were there be any thought that the victem may have been doing something wrong (like jay walking).
It seems like if you can portray someone as a “victim”, that person is now free from any wrong doing accusations. Whenever there is a police shooting, (ie cop shoots a scum bag) there is a corner’s (sorry I know I cannot spell) inquiry. Usually the corner suggests that the police use non lethal deterants like pepper spray etc. That has alway annoyed me. Even in the most clear cut cop shootings, the coroner will reccommend that the police use pepper spray, tazers, etc. Why can’t they just once come out and say: “You know, if people didn’t threaten cops they wouldn’t get shot” or “If you try to stab a cop you will get shot, so it’s a good idea for Joe Q Public (why joe Q, not joe P?) not to stab cops”, or shorter and to the point “It’s not nice to kill cops”.
If someone gets beat up, stole from, etc, and you suggest that they avoid dark alleys, lock your stuff up, etc, you are quickly told that it’s not the victim’s fault, and that you are blaming the victem for his/her victimhood. Now I agree that there are some times when the victim is completely blameless (nothing you can do about a cat burgaler/professional burgaler, daylight robbery (someplace where you wouldn’t expect these crimes to occur)), but other times, the victim is partially to blame (gee whiz, you know, going into a rough part of town in the middle of the night is a bad idea, who knew you would get mugged?). But that last statement is not politically correct.
Why are we not allowed to even entertain the possiblity that the victim may have caused his/her problems? It seems like the logical thing to do.
I’m afraid the only conclusion I was able to reach was that our current society is screwed up, and if I were king emperor of the world things might be marginally better.
I’m not sure where to put this though, it’s not GQ, nor BBQ (no swearing), but it might be MYSIMPS, IMHO, or GD. I don’t think it’s mundane, so it’s not MYSIMPS, it’s an opinion question, but I don’t think it belongs in IMHO. So that’s why it’s in GD. I’m sure someone will move it if it doesn’t belong.
Comments are solicited.
Sorry about the lenght.
Thank you in advance for your time and consideration (<<my default ending for any communication, it pays to be polite you see)