FrantzJ: I’ve been playing since 1975 in 6th grade. I started with the ancient 3 small books. I have Ref’d most of the time. Some of my campaigns were huge epics, with breathtaking detail and some were Monty Hall Affairs that played to the Players. A good DM should make the game fun, be fairly consistent to the rules he has established but those rules are up to the DM and the players. I only play rarely the last 9 years or so. (Since my first child was born), but I have run the current campaign for 5 years and the players want to keep going. I told them I was going to bring it to a conclusion this winter and we would start something new.
I am still using AD&D first edition and my own hand crafted world and my own rules. They have really enjoyed it, but they are now too powerful for me to get any satisfaction out of the game.
So keep DM’ing if the players have fun, you are doing a good job. If you ever get a campaign that appears book worthy, you have done a great job. I love the fact that people who use to play still talk about the old campaigns. It makes me feel good that I succeeded. Rulebooks are a guide, not a straight jacket!
Jim