I went to the old neighbourhood...

When I lived in Lancaster my dad was on great terms with the neighbours. Tom lived next door to the east, and he and dad were always in each other’s garage. (Tom was always wearing cut-off jean shorts and grease and nothing else, carrying a mug of coffee or a beer and a cigarette.) Bill didn’t actually live next door to the west, but that’s where he had a house.

When we moved there when I started high school the yards were mostly desert. That is, if you looked at a yard and then looked at the surrounding desert there was no difference. Red ant holes, tumbleweeds, scraggly grass-like plants, other desert plants, and sand. Dad’s and Tom’s front yards actually had “lawns”, but they were pretty sorry-looking. But the back yard was desert.

One of the first things dad did was to tear down the picket fence between his front lawn and Tom’s (with Tom’s approval, of course). Then he put tons of fertilizer on the lawn and planted new grass. He and Tom would take turns mowing the whole, now joined, front yard.

It was one of my after-school chores to go into the back yard and pull weeds by hand. Then I’d rake the strip I’d completed and pick the weeds I’d missed. Then rake again. Then pick again. After a while the whole back yard was weed-free. A patio was poured and dad built a sturdy roof from scrap lumber fromt he dismantled DMV building. (When it snowed heavily one year, neighbours’ patios collapsed – but not dad’s!)

A cinder block wall went up between dad’s and Tom’s to replace the ugly wormwood fence. Then a retaining wall in back made a home for the strawberries (and eventually, six peach trees). Finally, a cinderblock wall was erected between dad’s and Bill’s.

Bill reminded me of a character from a 1960s sit-com. Rail-thin, slacks and shirt, pencil moustache. I could see him as a forest ranger. Since Bill was never home, he gave dad and Tom permission to keep surplus vehicles behind his house. Dad and Tom put in a concrete driveway over there. After dad died, we sold his house to Tom.

So I’m getting an MGB. I have no place to keep it. Why not see if Bill is on one of his infrequent visits to his house? If not, then I can ask Tom if Bill is still allowing cars to be stored on his property.

I drove up to the old neighbourhood and got there about ten in the morning yesterday. Tom’s garage door was shut, which is unusual since he’s always working in there, but ten ayem can still be considered early in the day. I knocked on the door and Tom’s sone-in-law answered. "Is Tom here, "I asked?

“Oh. Tom died a couple of months ago.”

Apparently he’d been laid off from his job and moved to Florida to continue working in the space program. He was to meet a friend for coffee but didn’t show up. After a day, the friend was nervous and called the police. Tom had suffered a heart attack and died. He was 58.

I found out Tom’s youngest daughter is 19 now, and has a one-year-old child. Damn! Last time I saw her she was – what? Twelve? Thirteen?

The little girl across the street is 20 now, and her mom’s moved away. Other people have left. A couple have died. The neighbourhood looks the same, but it’s changed more than I would have thought it would in just three years since dad died.

The weird thing is the “kids”. It seems they’ve grown up. Everyone has gotten older except for me! How weird is that?

Well, anyway… I left a note in Bill’s mailbox asking him if I could park a vehicle there.

Wow. That’s a beautiful and sad story both, Johnny. I’m glad you shared it.

P.S. I’m sorry I didn’t call you back!

No worries, Heloise. I gathered later that the message on my cell must have been while we were still out riding, and not from later in the evening.

Thanks for reading the story. I’m not quite sure why I posted it. It’s just so weird not seeing Tom around. I used to visit my friend Sandy’s father “Smitty”. He and I worked for the same company until I quit to move to L.A. in the '80s. Sandy liked that he was getting a visitor, and I could update her on his condition. The last time I saw him he looked very frail indeed. Now I really want to see Bill again. He’s really a nice guy.

It’s always strange going to Lancaster. I look at the neighbourhood and think, “I used to ride my Enduro there! It used to be dirt! I flew my rubber- and gas-powered free-flight airplanes where that street is. I launched rockets from there.” When I go to my best friend’s mother’s house (BTW: I visited her and her husband since I was in the area) I look at the houses and think, “That’s where we filmed Mutilation Maniacs after high school. There’s where the guy landed his Huey once.” I look at the big housing tracts and malls visible from highway 14 and think, “I remember when that was dirt!” It’s true that the new housing in my neighbourhood and my best friend’s neighbourhood went up before I moved, but it’s mind-boggling how large and how quickly the old town has grown.

I guess it’s true: “You can’t go home again.”

Nice thread, Johnny- if a bit sad.

When I was a kid, all that separated my parents house from the moors was a 300 meter walk through the outskirts of town. We would play there as kids. Usually, we played soldiers all Wednesday afternoons (that’s when the elementary schools are closed here). Also, the air force would do parachute droppings over the moors - there was an air force base about 15 kilometers away. They’d jump out of a Fokker Friendship, and get picked up at the rendez-vous point by a gigantic Chinook. Man, I loved those Chinooks! The pilots even let us on it when the engines were shut off. We’d walk around in the back, slackjawed at how huge these things were. One day, I even got to sit in the pilots seat!

We’d hang around the helicopter point and watch. Amazing, in hindsight: there was no fence, no real guards. Just a few soldiers warning you to back off when the Chinooks were coming in.

Also, we’d lay in the grass, and watch the NF-5’s and (later) F-16’s shoot through the sky, breaking the sound barrier.

The air force no longer does droppings over the moors. It’s a protected nature area now, which is probably for the best. Jet fighters are no longer allowed to break the speed barrier over land. Weird! I remember being startled by a sound boom many a time when I was walking to school. If you didn’t see the jet before it broke, it WOULD freak you out. :slight_smile:

You no longer can walk through the moors directly. A new provincial road cuts through the old trail now. You have to take a detour, through a bike tunnel.

It’s changed a lot.