Assumption: I know nothing else about you other than you are a firearm owner, maybe an owner of multiple firearms.
I would regard you with suspicion, because you think differently than I do. Without knowing anything about you, I start out as guardedly neutral towards you. Now, the one thing I know moves you further away, and gives me a reason to keep you, at a minimum, at arms length. I have no desire to like or be liked by everyone, or even a majority of the people I meet. There’s no reason for me to try to overcome my first impression.
Now, had I met you at cheering for the Yankees at the stadium, and it turned out your daughter goes to the same school as mine and is also on the volleyball team, and you’re a big fan of 70s/80s progressive rock, I’ve started forming a positive opinion. Positive first impressions. I still don’t trust you, because I really don’t know you at this point, but I’m pretty cynical that way. Now, I find out you’re a gun hobbyist. I disagree with you strongly, but we have similarities to build on. If down the line, I was put in a position to trust you’ll make the right decision in a pressure situation, I probably wouldn’t - but that’s because we have a fundamental difference of opinion and as evidenced in this thread, problem solving*. I don’t know if that (theoretical) swagger in your step is because you are a cocky, arrogant SOB like me, or is there because of the gun.
If your question about trustworthiness is about whether I think that you, as a gun owner, are inclined to rob banks, steal cable, and torture kittens - no, that’s not the case.
*Let me cut off the inevitable question about how I would have solved the problem in these school shootings. I have absolutely no idea what I would have done. I’ve never been in a situation remotely similar, and I hope to never be in one. The only thing I can say with any surety is that I’d rather not get in-between a shoot-out between two armed people, and I don’t think that it is necessarily the best solution, or even a good solution.
