I have made several canes or hiking sticks from various materials.
I personally like Holly. If you can find a sapling or branch that is the appropriate thickness (.75 - 1 inch diameter) you can get a great looking stick. If you are really lucky, you will get a root ball that will allow you to make a handle for it otherwise you will have to join one on. Holly is vitrually unbreakable but might be a bit bendy for a heavy person.
Hazel is easy to work with and very strong, it also grows very straight.
Ash is nice and easy to work
Willow is great and easy to bend so you can bend a handle on it.
There are ornamental cabbages that you can grow to use the dried stems as a cane
Hawthorn is beautiful and very strong
Beech is great and easy to bend and looks good if you finish it well.
I am crap at truning wood so I prefer to just use branches that have a constant thickness (again .75 - 1 inch diameter) Wood is very strong and will take a lot of weight. Sometimes I will use a whole sapling If I can get away with it as I like to use the root ball. I want to make a staff like Gandalf’s in the first Lord Of The Rings someday.
For handles, you need to take care as the user will be relying on it for support. You can buy nice pieces of pre-formed wood from woodworking supply companies so you could go for something exotic for the handle. Deer antler makes a very nice handle. A bent handle will look great and be as strong as the rest of the wood. I have had the most success with Willow.
If your friend does not want to admit that he needs a cane (My mother was like this and wouldn’t carry a waking stick for years) My brother came up with the idea of getting a metal hiking stick - one of the variable hieght types, with a cork covered handle - and fixing the parts of an unbrella to it. Now it looked like she was carrying an umbrella but at least had the strength of a cane.
Put a good ferrule on it too - one of those big rubber feet may look ugly but they grip well and again this is now his main support so function may be more important than form.
You need to think about how the user will use it. If he needs to look respectable eg business meetings, an old man of the woods style stick may be out of place but he could always keep the medical one for those situations.