I have a collegue that is a walking euphemism - he’s got an expression for everything and everything so as not to insult anyone. His vocabulary is gargantuan and he loves making up new phrases for everyday things.
I have heard several times, “if I had my druthers I’d…”
I get the meaning, but have no idea what a druther is or where it came from?
Wow… I always thought druthers was one of those words that you couldn’t singularatize. But if druthers is High Grand Grammatical Poopah Approved, and at its core it’s a contraction of I’d rather, than can one legitimately and properly (i.e., without fear of the Word Use Thugs coming down on you) say things like:
He’s just an idiot who doesn’t want to be a delivery boy. Druther not force it on him.
To be honest, druther be a crying little pussy than a faggy Goth kid.
The only way to keep your health is to eat what you don’t want, drink what you don’t like, and do what y’druther not
… well, you get the point. Is druther*_*** proper English?
Nope. It’s slang. Lexicographically-wise slang, originally, until use got so widespread that people using it were unaware of its origin. It always seemed obvious to me, but then again, I’ve been able to not pick up on things that seem abundantly obvious to others.