JoelUpchurch claims his whole reason for opposing SSM is the difference in taxes paid by married couples vs. singles.
I just did the calculations for two people. One makes 20,000 a year and the other makes 100,000 a year. As singles their total tax burden is 20,108. As a married couple the total is 17,506 for a total savings of $2,602 per year. If they both made 60,000 a year then it is a wash with a total of 17,512.
I didn’t double check my numbers. I did the calculation here:
http://www.taxbrain.com/taxcenter/taxcalculator/default.asp
As I said you can’t lose as long as you do the math before you tie the knot.
So, say SSM is deemed legal in all 50 states, and you disagree with it, how will you feel then?
If the name were different (call it a union, or whatever) instead of marriage, I’m just fine with it.
If the same sex folks keep insisting on having the permanent relationship called a marriage, all 50 states will never happen. Or at least I’ll be dead before it does.
I do believe thats because the deductions and exemptions are shaving off taxable income at a higher marginal tax rate. Your $20K person would have been taxed at 15% individually not 25% (around $3K vs about $5K) making up the vast majority of the differential, at lower tax brackets, the difference is far less pronounced. Any dependent can create this effect, not just a wife.
The same thing as I said in post 21:
All I wanted to do was state my position and move on. It is the people that keep objecting to my position that keep dragging it out.
Partly because it’s a weird position, and partly because it doesn’t answer the question.
You’ve really never heard that some states went further than just banning same sex marriage or civil unions?
The amendments I’m thinking of are described in this Wikipedia article (my emphasis added in bold):
Thirty-one U.S. state constitutional amendments banning legal recognition of same-sex unions have been adopted. Of these, ten make only same-sex marriage unconstitutional, seventeen make both same-sex marriage and civil unions unconstitutional, two make same-sex marriage, civil unions, and other contracts unconstitutional, and one is unique. Hawaii’s amendment is unique in that it does not make same-sex marriage unconstitutional; rather, it allows the state to limit marriage to opposite-sex couples. Virginia’s amendment prevents the state from recognizing private contracts that “approximate” marriage. Observers have pointed out that such language encompasses private contracts and medical directives. Furthermore, the Michigan Supreme Court has held that the state’s amendment bans not only same-sex marriage and civil unions, but also domestic partnership benefits such as health insurance.
The US State constitutional amendments that ban same-sex marriage, civil unions and other contracts are:
Michigan: “To secure and preserve the benefits of marriage for our society and for future generations of children, the union of one man and one woman in marriage shall be the only agreement recognized as a marriage or similar union for any purpose.”
Virginia: “That only a union between one man and one woman may be a marriage valid in or recognized by this Commonwealth and its political subdivisions. This Commonwealth and its political subdivisions shall not create or recognize a legal status for relationships of unmarried individuals that intends to approximate the design, qualities, significance, or effects of marriage. Nor shall this Commonwealth or its political subdivisions create or recognize another union, partnership, or other legal status to which is assigned the rights, benefits, obligations, qualities, or effects of marriage.”

I do believe thats because the deductions and exemptions are shaving off taxable income at a higher marginal tax rate. Your $20K person would have been taxed at 15% individually not 25% (around $3K vs about $5K) making up the vast majority of the differential, at lower tax brackets, the difference is far less pronounced. Any dependent can create this effect, not just a wife.
If you actually find an error in my calculations please get back to me. On the Tax Brain site you only have to plug in a few numbers to get an answer.
Yeah, as I got tired of banging my head against the wall, post #21 (and all the umpteen bazillion follow ups) still doesn’t tell me jack shit about how he’ll feel once it’s legal. So, I’ve given up. Perhaps s/he is incapable of telling us the answer to that question and sharing his, wait for it, FEELINGS on the subject of the OP. Good luck finding out.

You’ve really never heard that some states went further than just banning same sex marriage or civil unions?
The amendments I’m thinking of are described in this Wikipedia article (my emphasis added in bold):The US State constitutional amendments that ban same-sex marriage, civil unions and other contracts are:
You obviously don’t understand my point. I talking about private contracts and not marriage. There is nothing in what you quote that would prevent two people from having a binding power of attorney with each other even if the state doesn’t recognize any relationship.
The are some interesting discussion in some of the references to laws concerning polygamy. It might be interesting to see how the Supreme Court treats it when they DOMA comes before them.
Yeah, as I got tired of banging my head against the wall, post #21 (and all the umpteen bazillion follow ups) still doesn’t tell me jack shit about how he’ll feel once it’s legal. So, I’ve given up. Perhaps s/he is incapable of telling us the answer to that question and sharing his, wait for it, FEELINGS on the subject of the OP. Good luck finding out.
I won’t like it. Do you expect me to rend my garments on something I don’t see as a moral issue? I don’t understand why other people think I should care about what other people do with their private parts.
I find it odd that Joel has a problem with SSM rather than a problem with the Tax Code. His numbers work the same way for a straight couple with NO CHILDREN.

I find it odd that Joel has a problem with SSM rather than a problem with the Tax Code. His numbers work the same way for a straight couple with NO CHILDREN.
What part of this sentence do you not understand?
I don’t understand why childless opposite sex couples should get a tax write off either, but I can’t see why it is desirable to make the loophole bigger.

I won’t like it. Do you expect me to rend my garments on something I don’t see as a moral issue? I don’t understand why other people think I should care about what other people do with their private parts.
I don’t expect you to do anything, except answer the freaking question before sometime before post #100. However, my idea for starting this thread has pretty much been confirmed by the few responses… those that fight do hard against something that only affects others, themselves will just go back to their regular life with nary a problem or by being affected themselves by what’s transpired. And that’s galling to me. If there’d been at least a few who were moving out of the country to take a stand against our newfound hedonism, then perhaps I’d have a modicum of respect for that side of the debate. As it stands, any last vestige has evaporated.
I do not support it. I don’t hate gays I just don’t agree with it. Too be fair though if it does become legal, then I say do it all and also allow multiple-partner marriages as well. Cause at that point what more could it hurt.
My father made comment about this subject the other day that took the edges off it. He said, “Why should they get off so easy, let them marry and suffer like the rest of us!”.
I had to call him back after my laughing fit had stopped. He further commented that this could be the key to my future retirement yacht. Said divorces would double in a few years, my wife is an attorney.

I had to call him back after my laughing fit had stopped. He further commented that this could be the key to my future retirement yacht. Said divorces would double in a few years, my wife is an attorney.
Do the math before you put any money down on that yacht. Maybe 10% of the population is gay?

My father made comment about this subject the other day that took the edges off it. He said, “Why should they get off so easy, let them marry and suffer like the rest of us!”.
I had to call him back after my laughing fit had stopped.
You’ve seriously never heard that joke before? Jesus. Hey, here’s a brand new knee-slapper for you! Why did the chicken cross the road?

You obviously don’t understand my point. I talking about private contracts and not marriage. There is nothing in what you quote that would prevent two people from having a binding power of attorney with each other even if the state doesn’t recognize any relationship.
Maybe you missed this part of the Wikipedia article I quoted in my post?
Virginia’s amendment prevents the state from recognizing private contracts that “approximate” marriage. Observers have pointed out that such language encompasses private contracts and medical directives.

Maybe you missed this part of the Wikipedia article I quoted in my post?
Actually that does appear to be outrageous. Frankly the only way that I can imagine that the Marshall-Newman Amendment has actually survived is that nobody has actually tried to enforce it.