Yes, I do bemoan this, either its an “acceptable” word or its not. The double standard BS is just a bunch of crap.
Again, why not, seems like a double standard. As stated in a thread on this same page “black” or africans are the most genetically diverse group of people on the planet, therefore, me as a white should be able to celebrate my relative genetic rarity.
The sad thing is that you have to start a sentence like that. The sentence should simply be
“he’s an asshole”
not
“I’m not a racist, but he’s an asshole”.
If you’re an asshole, you’re an asshole, pink purple green white or black, you’re an asshole. BTW, that was my dad’s racism lecture while I was growing up.
As for black people being privledged, it kind of sucks for them, I would say they are at a disadvantage, but only slightly, no worse than a fat or ugly white person.
Quick aside, I was just over in Taiwan, and the guy I was staying with was telling me how incredibly prejudiced they are against black over there. I really didn’t believe it until coming back I had a layover in Tokyo, and coming off the plane they stuff you in this little tram thing. We were packing in like sardines. I was one of the first on, and two black guys after me, they stood next to me on the wall, well dressed, brief cases, the whole tram was packed, except for an empty circle around these two black guys. I had about 6 people stuffed up against me to the right and plenty of breathing room to the left.
So I guess, yes, they are privledged, they didn’t have a pile of hot sweaty people pushed up against them in the hottest most humid airport(or building for that matter) I’ve ever been in. I was just lucky to grab on to their tailcoats and only have half my body smushed by sweaty people.
On a more serious note, I except that kind of crap from my grandfather, racist SOB he is(he’s still my gramps though) and he has black and puerto rican friends, go figure. It was just strange.