You speak like someone who has absolutely no idea what life is like for the poor.
Safety nets are invaluable. If you don’t have money to afford food, you’re wasting energy trying to find ways to not starve all the time. If you don’t have consistent housing, you’re wasting energy trying to put a roof over your head. Poor people are constantly in survival-mode, and it’s not a fun place to be. You aren’t going to be able to focus on schooling and making the most of it if you have to spend all your time working. You’re not going to be able to start a business if you’re going to lose your apartment and all your savings if just one thing goes wrong.
Your argument, again, is ideological. It’s not ground in anything real or economical. There is real, data-driven benefit to having safety nets. You just don’t want to do it because you think putting that net into place “encourages laziness” even though the data doesn’t support that view. It’s always easy for people to cherry-pick and fall victim to confirmation bias by looking at cases where people DO abuse the system, but this isn’t the majority by any stretch of the word. It’s just another right-wing talking point.
Would you rather have a nation of people constantly struggling to keep their heads above the water, or do you think there would be some value to pulling them out instead of just uselessly yelling, “Learn to swim!” at their general direction? Once people are up out of the water, you’ve now got people who are able to focus on better things in life and make society a better place.