LiveJournally, sorry, but I’m just so happy I had to share.
I spent a year in Oz 1998-9 on a working holiday visa, and then another month there in 2000. Did the Gold Coast and usual backpacker trail, then ended up in Melbourne four months in. Where I stayed for the rest of the year. I can’t describe how I felt when I first walked up Elizabeth Street with my backpack the morning after arriving - like I’d come home. I had the best year of my life there, made some wonderful friends, and cried the whole way home when my visa ran out and I had to leave. (Lost 7 pounds in a week too because I was pining so much, but after dozens of dollar pots and La Porchetta steaks probably just as well.)
I’ve been trying to get back ever since. It’s been the only place I could ever imagine wanting to settle. I’m usually quite restless, and am on long term meds for depression, so this was quite a big deal for me. But the Oz government is very strict on who they let in to the country, and I never had enough points to emigrate. 3 degrees, no criminal record, but no chance. It’s been a standing joke among my friends for years that I’ll end up marrying an Australian.
So then I thought, well, if I could just go again for a few months and get it out of my system…it does sound pretentious I know, but I’ll never settle here unless I finally know I won’t settle there and that it’s out of my system. Or not, because I could decide to stay. I’ve never wanted anything in the past 9 years but a casual relationship, or a temporary job, because I’ve always been thinking I’ll be in Oz. But I could never afford it. I don’t have a credit card (see temp job stuff above), and by the time I saved up enough to buy a ticket outright the prices would be too high to manage it. It’s almost a grand for a return ticket to Australia from Ireland/the UK, and that’s booked in advance.
Then I was made redundant from my job in June, and now I’m freelancing, mainly editing and ghostwriting. It’s very hit and miss - there are times I literally don’t even have a couple of quid to my name - but one client asked me a few weeks ago to write a biography for him. And paid me 1/3 of the price upfront. Which was enough for a ticket to Melbourne! I leave on Feb 4. And I managed to get a year long visa!
I almost literally don’t believe I’m finally going at last. Happy happy happy. Any Melbourne Dopers - you want to meet up for a pot? (You know anyone who needs a bio written let me know as well. :))
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