In praise of the cheap and unpretentious

One of the enjoyable things about being a woman in early-21st century suburban America is how little it costs to look decent. The fact that affordable clothes which actually look good on me are so abundant at Target, and the same goes for shoes at Payless. I won’t win any snob points for shopping at these establishments, but so what? I steer clear of K-Mart because their quality is crap and their service is the pits. I steer clear of Wal-Mart because their treatment of workers is the pits. But Target is acceptable as well as affordable. It’s the best place to outfit oneself for everyday business casual women’s apparel. Their selection of women’s socks is outstanding. They’re not my perfect dream store by any means; they refuse to stock pretty patterned tights in my size (Queen). But for outerwear I’m pleased with the deals. The embroidered belt I found there constantly brings me compliments.

Target has several el cheapo house brands in ladies’ wear like Mossimo and Merona; and Xhilarations for lingerie and casualwear. They seem to carry Isaac Mizrahi as a slightly more expensive label, but still it’s all affordable and they’re constantly putting stuff on 50% off when it was cheap to begin with. The pink Cherokee sweater I’m wearing now cost me $4 on sale. Some of their fashions actually look stylish and chic without being glamorous. I find the quality of these labels to be consistent and reliable. They actually sell smart looks at Target instead of frumpwear. Ahhh, do you know what a relief that is?

The only thing Target really lacks for me is much in the way of dresses. They practically never have any dresses to speak of, so I haven’t built up my dress collection as much as I would like, while my closet is overflowing with separates.

Then there are the secondhand stores where I find most of my dresses, and all sorts of beautiful creations. My best purchase ever was my warm winter coat of purple cashmere, fits me perfectly, which I got at the Salvation Army for $34, and it was like new. I must have saved at least $200 on it. :cool: I have so much fun making my friends jealous when I wear something absolutely gorgeous I found at the Salvation Army, and they ask me where I got it, and I tell them there was only one of these, and I got there before you, nya-nyah. The only drawback to shopping at the Salvation Army is when you have to dry clean the nice dresses before you can wear them, to get rid of that crummy thrift-store odor. Usually the dry cleaning costs two or three times as much as the price of the dress! That’s how cheap things are there. You just have to keep checking back in frequently and you can find all kinds of treasures.

One of my friends is a choreographer and dance company director specializing in classical Central Asian and Middle Eastern dance. She sews all the fabulous exotic costumes herself. You wouldn’t believe how many costuming supplies she finds at Value Village. (I guess it helps that she lives in an area of Maryland with lots of wealthy expatriate Iranians whose castoffs wind up in Value Village.) She calls it “the karma store.”

Then there’s E-Bay. Don’t even get me started on the lovely clothes you can buy dirt cheap there. You all know what I mean. It’s harder to find good clothes at Ross, but you can find them if you look long enough, and they’re even cheaper.

So between Target, Payless, Ross, the Salvation Army, and E-Bay, I have no difficulty affording nice looks. The only thing one needs to lose is snob appeal, and I don’t care about that in the least. Win-win all around. :slight_smile:

I realize there is nothing earth-shattering about this insight. In fact, it’s the most banal thought I’ve had all week. Mundane? Check. Pointless? Check. Thus share I.

I’m with you. I resent spending lots of money on clothes-- it cuts into my book budget. I tend to get most of my stuff off of clearance racks and when stores are going out of business.

We don’t have a Target around here, so despite my ethical objections, I have to shop at Wal-Mart. Some of their stuff isn’t too bad, quality-wise. It varies from item to item, though, so you have to examine each piece you’re considering for durability.

I’ve found many beautiful suits, coats, and even designer stuff at thrift shops. I might spend $50 and come home with 5 or 6 complete outfits that look great. i only shop department stores in Jan. when Macy’s has the blow out sale!

I’m an outlet mall freak myself. Just bought a ton o’ Van Heusen dress shirts that were 40% off regular price. When I got to the register, it was take an additional 20% off day. I bought more shirts. Same with slacks. Bought a ton o’ those too anywhere from 40-80% off regular prices. I also bought a pair of Rockport Wing Tips, a pair of Nunn Bush loafers and two pairs of Hushpuppies cheap.

I own a Tommy Hilfiger windbreaker. When I saw it in a regular department store for $89.95 I didn’t like it so much. When I saw it at an outlet store for $39.95 it suddenly became the most wonderful windbreaker I ever saw. :smiley:

I’m with you Target! I get a lot of stuff there, mostly shirts and sweaters. My only complaint is that all the pants are long, long, long! I’m 5’3", so any pants I get there have to be hemmed, even those from the jr. department. I usually just go to Old Navy for pants, though. They always have my size and length, and are still pretty cheap for decent quality.

Unfortunately for me, I can’t get shoes at payless. I’ve never found a pair that didn’t cut into my my insteps too much to wear, even the WW sizes. DSW is good for that, and while it’s not Payless prices, it’s still cheaper than most places for really good shoes.

Let me see, I’m wearing Payless shoes – check – Target tights – check – full set of Target undies, come to think of it – check – LL Bean skirt, but it was on sale for about $15 – a turtleneck I’ve had so long that even if I paid full price we’re down to fractions of a cent per wear – and a sweater I actually paid about $40 for.

Damn, what’s with the sweater? :wink:

FTR, I’ve had the sweater at least 20 years, and wear it a couple of times a month in the winter.

I was in my Target on Saturday to buy Halloween candy. OMG!! They had so many cute clothes and shoes! I was good, though, and only bought myself a pair of black jeans (Levi’s button front bootcut). It was very hard not to blow my budget.

Ross is my favorite! Whether I’m looking for something in particular or just feel like shopping, I’ll block out a couple hours and browse in there till my feet start to hurt. I always manage to leave with several outfits after spending less than $100.

There is only one time of year when I will get malled. The day after Thanksgiving is a ritual shopping day for The Princess[sup]TM[/sup] and me. We start really early and make the rounds. Yeah, yeah, I know I’m supposed to be Xmas shopping then but… :stuck_out_tongue:

I have the opposite problem I can never find pants long enough. I am 5’8’’ but my legs are all my height! (before you think “luck you” I had a knee reconstruction surgery when I was 16) I love Tar-jay for tops but I bought 3 things there this weekend and one will have to go back because it isn’t even close to long enough in the arms! I laugh at supposed “Long” pants when the inseam is a mere 32.5’-33" I need at least a 34"!
Old Navy sometimes has pants that are long enough for me, but I find that I have to try every pair on because the sizing is so inconsistent. Any one else have this problem?

Why do all the stores have petite but not tall chicks with ape arms stuff?

Semi-related to this, I’ve always found “Alley Cat” brand cat food amusing. The picture on the box features a mostly-white cat, no collar visible, standing on top of a wooden fence, with the slogan “Just good cat food”. Compared to the ultra-pretentious “Sheba” brand, among others, it’s a refreshing admission that you’re feeding a cat, fer cryin’ out loud. If not for you, he’d be chasing down spiders and ants and mice and whatnot, not dining at the Four Seasons.

This reminds me of a thread of mine: Do you notice if someone is wearing expensive clothes?. Some people did, most didn’t.

I have the same problem. I just wait for the gap to have the sale table. You can get their jeans for anywhere from $19.50-$28.50, but be sure to try them on. The inseams on the “long” jeans varies. I have one pair with a 34" inseam & one with a 38" inseam. (one for flats & one for boots w/heels).

I’ve given up on fitted shirts w/sleeves that fit. I buy a size too big & hope the extra hang covers my wrists. Otherwise, fitted shirts are 3/4 length sleeves.

I have the same problem. Suprisingly enough, Ross’s shirts are often long enough for me in the torso and arms, when Macy’s and Gap stuff isn’t.

Old Navy’s “long” pants usually hit me right, but you’re right- their sizing is very inconsistent.

Being plus-size, I’ve had problems sizing everywhere–fortunately, Old Navy is one of the stores that has jeans I can actually fit into, along with Cotton Ginny and Mark’s Warehouse.

Yup, about 50% of my wardrobe is from Target, too, including all of my undies and socks. The only thing I don’t buy there is pants, because now that I’ve lost weight and I’m wearing smaller sizes I can no longer get by with regulars, I have to have a tall. And our Target doesn’t carry petites or talls, just regular in everything. Must be the manager’s policy, or something, because they have long and short sizes of pants on their website. I wish they had more generous cuffs, so I could let them out.

The 50% off rack is my friend, though. Gawd, I love scoring a great button-down shirt for five bucks!

I used to really like TJ Maxx, and found some really awesome stuff for cheap there, but the last three times I went I struck out totally, which has cooled my enthusiasm. I really ought to go back, though. But my big problem is that right now I need pants, pants, pants, and tall sizes are a rare duck at TJ Maxx, too.

I like wearing nicer clothes. Still, I always buy everything on sale. That is the great thing about online shopping. I can just check the clearance section of various store websites. I’m lucky that I’m an easy fit. Plus, I tend to buy things not as I need them, but as they’re on sale.

I do have the same problem at Old Navy. Different styles of pants I need different sizes. I find that I need a bigger size with lower-rise pants. Barrels, try H&M if you have on in your area. The clothes are ridiculously long, you might be able to find “monkey arm” shirts there. I’ve bought stuff there that hangs over the ends of my fingertips by a few inches, and it’s CHEAP.

I love Cotton Ginny’s jeans, they fit and they’re pretty durable, but they are pretty expensive, sadly.

I like Target’s designs but hardly buy anything there.

I am not broad-shouldered but anything remotely tailored is so tight across my shoulders that it feels like it’ll rip apart. And having G-cup boobs means that even their XXL buttondown shirts are 3" too small across the chest, even if the rest of the shirt is far too big for me.

And they don’t make jeans that fit a waist that’s 12-14" smaller than my hips. And I have short legs so I either have to hem my jeans (dorky) or cuff them (dorky and make my legs look even shorter, to boot). I have this problem at basically every store, though. Mixit jeans are the only ones I’ve tried that fit my curves (although the inseam’s still too long).

The Karma Store sounds fantastic!

And yes, Target is the bomb. I buy the Merona and Cherokee t-shirts in all colors and wear them everyday. At night, it’s never cold enough for a coat here but I have sweaters off the reduced price rack. Sometimes we get lucky and find a hoodie at Mervyn’s that has been marked down, but a lot of their stuff is expensive by my standards. I have many Hello Kitty undies and shirts from Target, which makes me happy cuz I don’t find them at any other stores. I hate Wal-Mart, however it seems to be the only place that I can find pants/jeans that fit.

I have wide feet. It’s a problem. Sometimes I get lucky at Famous Footwear, I have one of their member’s cards and they send me coupons all the time. There are some very nice but plain shoes in the LL Bean catalogue for $29. There’s always shoes.com, which has some good sales but you pay for shipping. I love Payless Shoe Source, but rarely find what I’m looking for there. When I do get lucky there, I take something up to the register and it ends up being about half of what I was expecting to pay. Cool!!!