This has never been, and never will be, a substitute for an actual intelligent rebuttal. And it’s highly ironic, too.
PS - I don’t recall saying where I personally insulted the "restaurant and the people working there ", but I’m sure I must have somewhere…I know you’ll point it out to me, though.
You feel that somehow keeping track of 20 orders is a Herculean task that no one should be expected to do. I think that’s bullshit. And even if you DID have the entire thing on one bill, which completely falls in line with what you desire, someone could sit there with a fucking pocket calculator and divide up the bill per person, then enter it into the register. You do know who ordered what, right? Otherwise, how do you put it on the table in front of them?
But no, you would have me believe that even having a person sit down for 10 minutes (30 seconds per tab) and come up with separate checks is something that cannot be expected of anyone. And here I thought Engineering was hard.
In fact, I think it is YOU who are being insulting to the serving profession in these examples, as I think you are almost saying that servers in restaurants just couldn’t wrap their minds around the concept of splitting a bill. I tend to think that the average server is an average person who has the ability to do this task. And that good servers are pros and experienced and know how to handle this situation. Being a good server is not a brainless job, it’s a matter of balancing schedules of the tables, checking and doing the rounds, handling special requests, checking in the kitchen, handling the money, acting as a saleswoman (of sorts), and being the ombudswoman for complaints and problems.
But then, I wouldn’t know anything about that, because I haven’t worked in the industry, so I guess I’m wrong on that notion.
That having been said, I need to know fuck all about running a restaurant to know that I can take a single bill, note who ordered what (which is something that the servers do in fact know, although now you’ll likely come back with “NO, the servers do NOT know who ordered what, don’t you DARE to presume to tell me what we know!”), and add the numbers and come up with 20 bills. And then enter these into the register. Let’s say that takes another minute per bill (somehow). We’re now up to half an hour. Gee, having a (sadly) near minimum-wage person working for half an hour is so expensive, compared to the $2500 in revenue…you may as well shut the doors and declare bankruptcy if that’s the case.
As to my “accusation” of things being added to the bill - well, my dear, it has happened on every single occasion except one in 7 years of hosting events like this. Even when I have appointed an employee under me to watch and note and keep a parallel list of who ordered what. Funny how there always seems to be one porterhouse too many, or one bottle of champagne that no one remembers having, or even the “double gratuity”, which appears twice on the bill and gets added in twice. But hey, you’re supposed to leave a 40% tip regardless of the quality of the service, right?
Yeesh. Just because you can’t figure it out doesn’t mean that there aren’t a plethora of sharp, experienced servers out there who could do it in a second. And I vote with my very substantial entertainment budget to patronize them. The rest, well, it may not hurt their business in a way that they perceive, but it sure as hell doesn’t help their business either. Oh well, I guess.