I can’t speak to what “most” of them allegedly want, but for me, this is absolutel not true. Quite the contrary, I find most new “features” to be, at best, superficial or useless, and at worst, to actually degrade the user experience.
In the case of Discourse, I’d be interested in having someone explain why “relative color syntax, subgrid, and lookbehind regex” is so all-fired important that it justifies obsolescing an entire generation of browsers. I like Discourse, but I’d be hard-pressed to think of any significant way of improving it. In fact, my only real complaint is that it’s already so feature-rich that, on my relatively old tablet, it takes longer to load than any other website.
Or consider the evolution, or lack thereof, of Micrsoft Windows. Windows XP was a genuine advance, bringing to consumers for the first time the stability of the Windows NT kernel, and obsolescing the Windows NT product line. Was I reluctant to adopt it? Ha! I was so anxious to move into this exciting new world that, through my contacts at Microsoft, I was running a beta version before XP was even officially released!
I was even fairly accepting of Windows 7, though the incremental advantages were minimal and the migration from XP was painful. But Win 7 at least offered stable support for the 64-bit version and the ability to address more physical memory than XP, and generalized file transfer support for Android devices via MTP. It also had the Aero interface which is pretty but functionally useless, and Microsoft abandoned it later.
But subsequent operating systems? Nothing. There is nothing in Windows 10 or 11 that I want or need. There is absolutely no practical reason we couldn’t still all be running fully supported versions of Windows 7. The reasons we can’t are all artificial and mostly related to Microsoft’s business model.
The Windows 10 UI was premised on the idea that everybody and their dog would be using touch screens, which, just like Bill Gates’s obsession with pen input, turned out not to be the case. Tablets may be computers, but traditional computers aren’t tablets, and aren’t used that way. Windows 10 and 11 have both been criticized for their UI changes, which represent the core of my criticism here: change simply for the sake of change.