The reason why red hair is such a defining thing is precisely because it is different. It is almost like when people dye their hair an odd colour and stand out, sometimes they are labelled a freak, but that is their choice to do that, ginger hair is something you are born with and you cannot control so if you are picked on and labelled, it is not because of your choices, but who you are, and that hurts alot.
When you are a kid, standing out because of the way you look is a very bad thing, you are an obvious target. It is not the same as excelling, or being exceptionally bad. When I got older, it became a positive for the very same reasons.
And, bwk, I know all about the hatred of the sun thing. It has been scientifically proven that ginger haired people melt at 45C <g>
TTFN
Rick