One thing you really can’t dispute is that the world is getting warmer (and yet, some people do dispute it, but that’s another topic). However, the exact reasons for this warming are a bit more arguable.
If you graph the temperature over the past 100 years or so, no matter whose data you use it always ends up looking something like this:
http://earthobservatory.nasa.gov/Features/GlobalWarming/images/giss_temperature.png
That graph rather eerily corresponds to the amount of pollution that mankind has been throwing into the atmosphere, which makes it very clear that man is responsible.
Or does it?
If you look at the really long term trend (going back millions and millions of years) a completely different picture emerges. Again, data varies a bit depending on whose numbers you use, but it looks more like this:
http://www.naturalclimatechange.us/images/bernier-climateandco2overlast600mill-custom-size-600-600-1.gif.jpeg
This graph makes it look like the average temperature of the earth is usually somewhere around 21 or 22 deg C and the earth is now just coming up from an unnaturally cold spell. The implication here is that the world would be warming up anyway, with or without our help.
While exactly how much of the warming is natural and how much is caused by man may be a bit arguable, you are going to have a hard time finding scientists these days who don’t believe that man is at least helping push things along.
One very important thing to consider though is that when you look at these graphs, you are looking at trends that run over hundreds to millions of years.
The OP is making a very big mistake in thinking that any rise or fall over the past couple of decades is significant. That’s statistical noise. Temperatures have warmed up for hundreds of years and cooled for hundreds of years. A couple of decades here and there don’t mean much.
One thing to get very worried about though is the fact that we (as well as much modern life) evolved during that brief cold period that has lasted for the last 30 million years or so. We are built for average global temperatures somewhere around 14 or 15 deg C. Raising it up to “earth normal” of 21 deg C may very well spell doom for all of us.
One thing to notice on that second long-term temperature graph is that at the end of the Permian period the temperature rose up above the “average” for a bit before dropping back down. That’s basically the era of the Permian-Triassic extinction event, also known as the Great Dying. It’s the earth’s most severe known extinction event in all of history. And there’s a chance that much of it was caused by the earth just getting too hot to support life.
Global warming might save us from the next ice age (which is a bit overdue, based on historical cycles). Or it might kill us all. I wouldn’t get all excited just because you’ve had a few decades of mild weather. Even if we aren’t heading towards another Great Dying, relatively moderate amounts of global warming could turn a lot of fertile farmland into overheated desert, causing massive global food shortages.
ETA: To specifically answer your questions:
#1. In your area have winters become less cold?
Yes.
#2. Have summers become hotter?
Yes. They are downright miserable these days.
**#3. Do you think in your area the changes have been positive or negative? **
The weather has been getting more erratic around here, which I don’t think is good.