I’m not talking about breaking laws, just following rules.
This issue arose on a mothering messageboard, and I wondered what Dopers had to say on the issue. Ann’s 4-yr-old daughter, Mary, attends a very expensive preschool that aims to promote healthy eating habits among the children. This particular value is very important to Ann, and is one of the reasons she wants her daughter to attend this school.
So the Official Parents Handbook says very clearly that kids are to bring only healthy food for snacks and lunch. The children dine together, but each child brings and eats their own food.
However, there’s one overweight little boy in Mary’s class, Jimmy, who brings McDonald’s chicken nuggets and fries as his lunch and Cheetos as his snack, on a daily basis.
Ann is not aware of any eating disorder issues that would prevent Jimmy from eating apples along with the rest of the kids. Earlier this year Jimmy slimmed down a bit, but now he’s more overweight than ever and his parents have expressed some concern that he not lose weight.
I’m wondering if there’s a medical condition that would necessitate junk food and extra weight for a 4-yr-old. I do know that some small children WILL starve themselves rather than eating food they don’t like, but this child doesn’t seem to be in any danger from starvation.
On the one hand, it’s clearly none of Ann’s business what Jimmy eats for lunch and why; his parents MIGHT be lazy morons who don’t know any better, but given the cost of attending this school it seems likely that they’re sufficiently educated to be making deliberate choices. So perhaps this is an opportunity for little Mary to learn that one follows the rules despite the choices made by one’s peers?
On the other hand, isn’t this kind of like a Goth kid attending a Catholic school? If you’re not going to follow the program, then why bother?