I have definitely met gay people who exclusively preferred the company of other gay people* and were snidely dismissive of “breeders”. These would be the aforementioned “jerks”. To the best of my knowledge, they represent a tiny minority of the overall homosexual population.
It is possible that Urbanredneck has encountered some of these. It is also possible that they have rebuffed him for personal reasons. Hard to tell without an objective view.
I am excluding from this group those who may merely enjoy having a gay-exclusive space (say, a lesbian bar) to relax in from time to time without fear of harassment or annoyance from well- or ill-meaning heterosexuals because, really, who wouldn’t?
Yeah, I know there are places where that sort of thing “happens”. I also know that a lot of other things “happen”. Why don’t you just come out, and admit that you’re an ol’ gay horndog? How else can you explain your obsession with what goes on among gay men? If you seriously wanna know where to go, to get groped by other men, there are ways of finding that info.
The women I know who go to dance clubs consider repeatedly groped by strangers a routine part of being on the dance floor. Since it’s dark and crowded the gropers generally get away with it, and it happens so often they consider it part of what you have to put up with, not something especially noteworthy. And they probably wouldn’t mention it to the kind of person who loses it at the sight of a little cleavage.
I think one of the reasons so many men get really worked up about homosexuality is that their real worry is that gay men will think about and treat them the same way they treat and think about women.
“Quite” and reserved in the classroom, but jovial and outgoing when participating in her sport. Yes, must be all the lady athlete bodies that surround her. :rolleyes:
