For me, it’s the sheer arrogance of Christians (ok, some Christians) that sticks in my throat–and I consider myself a Christian!
“Do you truly know the Lord?”–the sheer effrontery of that question leaves me speechless. Who the hell do they think they are? They (evangelicals, fundies–whoever) have come to my dorm room, to my home, to my place of work (oh, they work there too), in the mall…the only place it hasn’t happened is in my own church! (thank God!). So, while I see the point about tolerance and good manners, I veer more towards LoopyDude–stop 'em in their tracks, cold.
I do not instigate anything with these folks, but I will not let them ramrod their “religion” down my throat–or my kid’s. My kids come home from our home schooled, right wing, fundamentalist Christian neighbor’s and tell me that Catholics aren’t Christian (we are not Catholic), that the Earth is 6,000 years old–I could go on and on. They are ruder and more intrusive than many peopel think. And they’re like cult people–if you challenge them, it’s you who are Godless and Evil…it’s bizarre as hell.
Let them keep themselves in deep ignorance and rank stupidity–I draw the line at their spreading it in the neighborhood, and in the schools etc. Unfortunately, they have the floor, so to speak for at least the next 4 years…
As to the whole if you can say this about Christianity, why not about Islam/Judaism etc. I do agree with the dominance position, but also–when was the last time you were accosted by a Hindu and berated for not believing in Vishnu?
IMO, “Christians” ask for all the abuse they get–by disrespecting other religions, by assuming that their way is The Way, by their actively pushing away of any other POV.
(I must say that not ALL Christians do this–and maybe it is unfair to paint all with the nastiness of some. But those “some” are so strident and so blockheaded that exasperation does take hold and vitriol results).
And yes, feminists found out early on that “nice” got them nowhere…