For the record, I didn’t stop posting here because people were being ‘mean’ to me. I stopped because the tactics that were starting to be used against me were actually effective in the sense that they made it nearly impossible for me to participate here.
For example, a handful of posters seemed to make it their life’s work on this board to follow me around and start digging up old posts and forcing me to re-argue them, or making charges against me that I couldn’t leave unanswered, but doing so would derail the thread they decided to hijack. If I succumbed to temptation and started defending myself, it was a net negative for everyone else in the thread who had no interest in what I might have said about the space program in 2003 or some other subject that someone thought they could ‘get’ me with. If I didn’t respond, then they’d just make it worse by continually needling me in every thread I was in until they got a response. Then it would just start up again over something else.
Also, as a right-leaning poster here, when I say something I’ll often get many challenges - sometimes too many for me to be able to answer with any kind of thoroughness. Usually, it’s understood that sometimes you can’t answer every post, and if you answered someone else that had a similar argument, that would be good enough. But recently, certain people started following me from thread to thread, interjecting the conversation with tidbits like, “Before you answer that, why don’t you come back to thread A and answer my question? Huh?” And after a while, if someone would ask something of me, the same posters would interject and say, “don’t bother with him! He’ll just run away as soon as the going gets tough.”
All of this nonsense is actually against the rules, but reporting it all didn’t seem to slow it down - it just generated a lot of mod admonitions and warnings against those people.
The bottom line was that I was starting to feel that my mere presence here was a disruption, because I couldn’t enter a thread and have a discussion about just about anything without my little entourage of ankle-biters showing up and making life miserable and disrupting the thread. I don’t like being put in that situation, and there aren’t enough hours in the day to answer everyone in the more active debates, so I was somewhat in a bind.
Finally, I was sticking it out, but lately I’ve noticed the quality of debates deteriorating dramatically. Probably because the number of conservatives/libertarians around here has dwindled to the point where they are so outnumbered that these debates rapidly degenerate into either conservative/liberal bashing, or mutual back-patting fests among the liberals. Partisanship is taking over from real, substantive debate.
This became especially clear during the last round of libertarian threads. Regardless of how fringe people may think it is, it is still a serious philosophy worthy of debate, but debating anything about it has simply become impossible here because any thread about it is immediately dive-bombed by people who enter the thread solely to throw insults at anyone trying to defend it. I found that incredibly frustrating, and one day I just asked myself why I continued to put up with the nastiness and games when, at the end of it all, you couldn’t even have a serious debate anyway.
I’ve put up with the insults and the games for years, because in the end, this place still had the best group of intelligent people on the internet, and it was one of the few places that wasn’t just completely polarized on the right or the left. I rarely post on conservative message boards, because I have no interest in ‘debating’ inside an echo chamber - I have no idea why you liberals seem to prefer that, and get so bloody angry at people who have different opinion. I want to actually understand the ‘other side’, and I like having my own ideas challenged. Even just as a mental exercise, it’s healthy to put your ideas up against smart opponents. This place fulfilled that need.
Increasingly, (and restricting this comment to Great Debates only) that’s no longer true - at least for the issues I care to debate. Therefore, it stopped being worth the hassle of trying to converse with people in a hostile environment. When you get to the point where all you need to see is a thread title, and you know exactly how the debate is going to go, the positions everyone is going to take, and how it’s going to end (usually badly), what’s the point?