Hell, if we’re both hanging around these boards (and I’m still in control of my faculties) when I get to that point, you’ll get first choice after my kids!
Funny, how people differ. When we bought our second home, we decided that we wouldn’t bring anything of poor quality into our home. That has carried over to our present home, which we bought and furnished as empty nesters. We fully adhere to the arts and crafts credo: “Have nothing in your home that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.”
When we bought our first piece of Stickley - a Morris armchair, it was an amazing luxury splurge for us. Now, a couple of decades later, some might justifiably suggest we may have overdone it with the Stickley mission - we are at the point where we just bought a bunch of Stickley furniture and rug for a 3-season room. Amazing how one’s situation and perspective can change over the course of a lifetime.
Growing up with us in homes we decorated, our love for mission and arts and crafts design has had some effect on our kids and their preferences/styles. Just not sure they (and their partners) are as single-mindedly nuts about it as we - or that they will live in homes where our furniture will fit. They do seem to prefer owning fewer quality clothes and possessions than disposable quantity.
Next week we are sending our patio furniture out to be sandblasted and repainted. If we had bought cheaper stuff, we would likely have replaced it 2 or 3 times already. As is, it will be like new, and good for another decade or 2. We prefer to buy quality, and would generally rather go without, than buy something cheap.
And, for the record, we are comfortable, rather than rich. I’m a lifelong government employee, and my wife went to minimally part-time when our 3d kid was born. All 3 of our kids went to state colleges, and are now independent. We tend to be homebodies, and would rather buy nice things for our home than eat out a lot, travel luxuriously, or drive fancy cars. Just our preference.