What would a new week be without another thread about me meddling in my kids’ business? Well, not meddling at all, just kinda curious (and a tad disappointed).
Oldest kid finished college and will student teach this fall. She and BF moved into new apatment together. What has kinda surprised my wife and me was that they apparently don’t want any “hand-me-down” furnishings from us and instead seem to be furnishing their apartment with all new stuff. Surprises us because it is quite different from the way we were when we started out. And disappoints us a bit because we don’t think it reflects the wisest economic decision. But they have their own lives to lead, and we are keeping any criticisms (and our “junk”) to ourselves.
So my question is at what point in your life did you start buying primarily “nice” new stuff for your home? How do you define “nice”? And how “nice” was it? Did you ever accept/appreciate cast-offs from family/friends? Shop thrift stores? Garbage pick?
It was funny because early yesterday morning my wife and I were walking the dogs. Someone had put 2 wooden chairs next to the street (folk often put stuff by the street to be scavenged the day before trash pick-up). My wife commented that she needed a new chair for my daughter’s old bedroom which was becoming our “conservatory” (doesn’t that just REEK of class!) So here we were happily hauling someone else’s trash home, while my daughter could have used both of the chairs for around her dining table.