Italian name change to ward off bad omen?

I informed my father I was going to Rome in a few weeks, to which he replied you should visit family while you over there. My response was a blank stare and ‘um I have family over there?’ He went on the say my family has an open invitation to stay with the Italian family over there who holds the original estate whenever visiting. I love my family, they always try to keep each other informed… You know he could have mentioned that 20 years ago.

So following up on that talked to my aunt, to get contact info for my great aunt. She informed me my great aunt just went into the hospital yesterday and my not be coming out alive this time. My great aunt has apparently visited a few times and has kept in contact with the relatives. Family is from northern Italy and they have the original family house that dates back many generations. I have no idea whether that would imply its a shack or a mansion. The only other person who has kept contact with Italian relatives is my great uncle, as his sister my be dying and he tends to be grumpy in normal circumstances I’ll avoid following up before this trip. /end story time

Anyway the aunt I spoke with mentioned the family in Italy had changed their last name slightly to ward off bad omen. A letter at the end of the name has been changed. This happened after my great grandfather left to stay in America permanently. He traveled to America then returned to Italy shorty and told them he was going to America to stay and never return. He was the oldest son in the household. The oldest son leaving and not returning is the bad omen they changed the name to avoid? Was this normal or do I have even more crazy in my family then I knew a few days ago?

My mother has done very in depth genealogical research on both sides of the family and I’m sure I could get very specific information on people and places but thats never really interested me. Its the past down stories that tend to be interesting.

I’m used to this sort of thing. A lot of Thais change their name on the advice of a fortune-teller, either to ward off bad luck or attract good.

Wow that must be fun. Do they have to go through a legal process to do it? How far back can common records account for? Must make genealogy a real bitch.

Well, considering that surnames here are less than 100 years old (decreed by King Rama VI, who reigned from 1910-25), genealogy is not that big a field here anyway. There is a legal process, but I don’t think it’s expensive or complicated.

Enjoy the trip. Word of advice - if, one night, your hosts decide to pit two bull-elks against each other in a battle to the death in the backyard, bet on the one with the smaller antlers. Trust me.

It’s a very old Italian custom: There was a pre-Roman Samnite town in southern Italy originally named Maloentum in the Oscan language, which meant something like ‘fruitful market’. When the Romans took it over, they thought it sounded like male ventum, Latin for “ill come” or “bad wind,” so they changed the name to Beneventum for good luck.