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It’s ignorance and shitty developing that keeps these non-problems in their cycle of regurgitation. Most games, hell, all of the ones I’ve played online have a function to mute people that are in the game. There’s even a function in the console itself (360) to mute anyone that’s not on your Friends List. You can run into some fun people to play with online. I’ve bumped into many, just from random playing. Again, I don’t play with randoms anymore because I belong to certain gaming forums that don’t let anyone under 25 register on the website. I just play with members from that site. There are plenty of people that are (more) mature that play video games a lot these days. I can scare up a party in pretty much any video game that’s worth playing online.
Hell, I don’t even buy games for the single player mode. There was a lot of hubbub over that level in Call of Duty 5, but I wouldn’t know because I’ve never played the single-player version. Doing the multiplayer right, with people you know, increases a lot of value and longevity into the game itself. Hell, all of my close friends don’t live anywhere near me anymore. If we’re going to play and bullshit online, it’s got to be over Xbox Live. It’s sure as hell not going to be over the Wii (1, their crappy Friends Code system for the console and each individual game and 2, no voice chat). At least if the Wii had voice chat enabled, we (my girlfriend and I) might tinker with it more often, so we can play with people she works with.
My main objection with the Wii, in general, is that it, and its games, are pretty fun and good ideas, but they’re halfway there. Sweet. Baseball. I can hit, but I can’t field? I can’t even move the fielders? It’s only 4 innings? Where are their legs? This isn’t a game. This is an alpha release for a game. Zelda? Wow, these graphics look like shit. These controls feel tacked on. It just took me 5 hours’ worth of time to figure out how to fish? Mario Kart has always been fun and a pain in the ass. We can finally play it online? Sweet! There’s no voice chat, the powerups need refining, the rubber band AI is REALLY bad. What disappointments.
There are two games that I’d recommend for the Wii right now. Rayman’s Raving Rabbids and Super Mario Galaxy. Everything else I’ve played has some fatal flaw in single-player or multiplayer that makes it a chore.
And, like I’ve said before, I’m a huge Nintendo fan. I had the NES, SNES and N64 and played them obsessively. Nintendo lost me along the way. They’re not suffering for it, but I’m just disappointed that there’s very little there for me. I’d like to be able to use the system more and play games on it, but there’s been an amazing glut of AAA titles out for the 360, why would I even take a stab at a Wii title that could very likely end up unfulfilling?