You go girl, I gave up wearing a bra as soon as I became an adult. It didn’t hurt that I had A cups.
When I went to university I had an oriental foreign student room mate whom I immediately corrupted. Honestly, there was even less reason for her to wear one. I was very young and thought not about cultural differences or fall out.
When she returned to her Asian homeland her mother was well and truly appalled. Her daughter had gone off in hand made clothing and numerous undergarments and returned, braless and in second hand clothing, not to mention the bad attitude!
Time passes. Things change. Or, maybe not.
I returned to visit her just last year, after over 20 yrs since our schooling, had the great good fortune to meet her beautiful and talented 10 yr old daughter. Oh, the fun we had.
Shortly after my arrival the golden child observes, ‘Auntie Elbows, you’re not wearing a bra. Sometimes my mother doesn’t wear a bra.’ The tone was enough to tell that even with the passage of many years this is still questionable if not scandalous behaviour.
20 years older and not one whit smarter, my friends. I tell her I did have the bra on when I went through customs, and both when I boarded and de planed, in case she was scandalized. I pointed out that it was a very long flight, that it’s not especially pleasant to sleep in a bra.
Never one to leave well enough alone, I then pointed out that in, my opinion, the Gods clearly intended for boobies to run wild and free. We laughed, it was well and good. She took it in stride, without comment, and we all moved on.
I visited with them a week then carried myself off to a local beach for a 3 wk holiday. Returning to fly back home.
When I returned my friend informed me that golden daughter had gone promptly to school the next day and announced to all her classmates that boobies were meant to run wild and free. :smack: