So yet another can kick on my #312th post in the board on the thread I normally post in. Searching has been normally dead right now because of planning for two vacations (including one on April 20th-April 22nd with my family), after that though, there should be no vacations until September when my family heads to NYC (hopefully they’re driving- we have an I-Pass transponder, so we should have no problems heading down the (new open-road) tolls. If they’re taking a train, I’ll take a pass on this trip.) In-between those vacations I should still be looking for work. Right now I have these problems:
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[li]Location. Currently I live in Southwest Cook County (I’m not telling the exact location for privacy reasons, but I am near the Pace 330 route), most of the jobs I’ve found are in the north side of Cook County, or on the Northeast side of Illinois near the lake. (Either way, I’m looking at a 3-hour commute one way by bus!) Relocation is not possible in the short term, and depending on a court case, my parents will not support me in finding a house or an apartment on the north side of cook or Illinois, nor in Chicago. (Why, I have no clue. You would think they’d help their son out!)[/li][li]“Reliable Transportation”. AKA, I need a car. My parents won’t assist me in finding a car, they suggest that I take money out of my trust fund my uncle set up for me, but my uncle warns taking money out of the trust fund will impact the fund in general since the fund will lose value if I do. Considering my luck since 2009 (when I started high school)*, I’m no gambling man, so I’ll leave the trust fund intact (or at least until my uncle recommends a good time to take money out of it).[/li][li]Job locations. I haven’t seen many “ladder-starter” jobs as of late, at best I get locations from Romeoville, Vernon Hills, Wisconsin and a few north side locations. Considering my opportunities in 2016, it’s been a struggle.[/li][/ul]
*I’ve always said I’m unlucky. I’ve had no friends, no contacts, no girlfriends, no sex life and no luck gambling on money. I’m not sure how to get on even footing with individuals richer than me (and that would be the middle class with their cars, houses and snootiness), but I don’t want to be 66 years old only to find out I’m where my family is at right now at wages!) I fear taking high risk chances cause I’ve failed on high risk chances many times with no success.
I still have hope. It’s not all as grim as it is, my life could be a lot worse, with smoldering debts, no living and no job training. I’ve got a platform to get me up a ladder, I have no debts and I have living accommodations. Options are all open on the tables. It’s just a matter of figuring out which options.