Yeah, but that’s the whole thing. I’m of Polish heritage and a lawyer, and I enjoy Polish and lawyer jokes. But I guess I’m not being victimized or anything, because tellers would be “punching up” at me as a privileged white guy. But if I tell a joke about a Jew, or a woman, that has to be judged in some historical/cultural context.
I’ll keep telling whatever jokes I wish to tell in whatever jokes I feel like it. I’ll just self censor around here. And folk I don’t care about will likely form judgments about me. That’s fine.