July is the longest month for mini-rants

[SeaDragonTattoo]

@eclectic_wench

Lacunae Matata, you’ve been under so much hideous stress, and you’ve been living with this person’s crazy for so long, that it sounds like you’ve got a little bit punch-drunk.

Her giving WTF excuses about your kids’ looks is so minor, in context, that it doesn’t even register. Who cares what her excuse is? Why did you even bother to have that conversation? She moved a CHILD MOLESTER into your HOUSE with your CHILDREN. If someone told me months after the fact that she’d done that, the one and only thing I would ever say to her after that would be ‘You have thirty minutes to get your stuff out of my house.’

This isn’t me criticising your response. This is me saying that it seems like you and Tony have been through so much high-grade shit over the last couple of years that your parameters for ‘not OK’ versus ‘OH HELL NO’ have been worn down with fatigue.

On the scale of Unacceptable Housemate Behaviour, where 1 is failing to change the toilet roll and 100 is burning down the house with your whole family in it, moving in a sexual predator without even warning you is about a 95. Why would you wait for her to do something that’s a 10 or a 20 before you throw her out?

This. +100. Please kick them out asap.

[El_Kabong]

Nothing like coming home to find a dead squirrel in front of the door. Yum, looks like dinner’s on the table…

[Seanette]

@El_Kabong

Nothing like coming home to find a dead squirrel in front of the door. Yum, looks like dinner’s on the table…

Gift from a cat?

[El_Kabong]

@Seanette

Gift from a cat?

Well, actually the neighborhood cats who hang out around the front entry seem to resent my disturbing their naps by coming home to my own damn house. Maybe it’s a warning; you know, like the horse’s head in the bed.

[Catamount]

@Seanette

Gift from a cat?

I think you’re old enough to learn to hunt now. Enjoy your practice squirrel! Next week I’ll leave you a live one.

[Nava]

@aruvqan

sniffle I bring my own sheets and blanket because I have fluffy microfiber plush ones so I can get to sleep without it feeling like I am sleeping on sandpaper …

Mine are just old fashioned 100% cotton, soft as down. And with night temps above 30ºC, even I have been known to sleep without a blanket; blankets are available in microfiber or 100% wool. The coverlets are also 100% cotton.

[slumtrimpet]

@Nava

I ask, since it’s usually family. Most of us also don’t have a problem with using a bed that was used by a relative two weeks ago, but some do. Since we know who the “used bedsheet cooties” people are, they always get a just-washed bed.

That one time Bro and SiL came to my house and brought their own bedsheets “so I didn’t have to bother”, thank Og I wasn’t in the house - when he mentioned it later, I gave him an “I’m not screaming because your children are nearby” rant that seems to have raised welts. That was certainly the intent, I keep my beds made all the time because they’re intended for guests, not so they look pretty (most of them don’t look particularly pretty anyway). Some selections: “Dafuq, my bedsheets not good enough now? Did I raise you to be such an imbecile that you bring your own to a house that’s already got made beds? What, as if packing for a family of four didn’t include enough stuff? Do you also bring your own to hotels?”

Ooo, my sister does this too. And towels. And pillows - of which we have closets full. And my house is set up as a B&B so there’s plenty of spares and the beds are always freshly turned. She ‘doesn’t want to be a bother’ as well. Never-mind that remaking the freshly made beds is far more of a bother than just leaving them be. Bless her heart. She’s a lunatic.

Lacunae Matata, you’re bucking for sainthood, yes?

[Merneith]

This new iTunes icon gives me the gripe.

[purplehorseshoe]

That was very well phrased, eclectic wench. Now let’s hope it helps. While I’m enjoying the thorough spicing-up of the mini-rants threads** what she’s been dealing with is just absolutely far and above what any mere mortal should be expected to endure.
** I open it in the morning, and it’s mostly “blah blah I stubbed my toe, blah blah arguing with the spouse, blah blah HEY! It’s a **Lacunae **post!” sits up to read more closely
ETA: mostly kidding. I’m not actually looking to shit on the other folks in here with honest-to-god woes.
ETA II: getting to VPN in and work from home occasionally is the shizzznit, except there’s no ergonomic or comfortable way to chill on the couch with my laptop.

[bobkitty]

I have a weird Facebook stalker who objected to my support of gay military members and who began sending initially harassing but now threatening PMs to me. Facebook feels that telling me to kill myself is not against their standards of behavior, so I sent a strongly worded “back off and GOOD DAY” PM to the stalker and blocked him. He is now posting my reply (out of context) on our neighborhood FB page. I sent an email with screenshots to our subdivision’s chief of police with a request for advice, before i have to break the news to my normally laid back but very protective USMC boyfriend, who would be loathe to beat the snot out of an allegedly wounded Navy vet, but who would be difficult to hold back if he saw the messages.

[Hey_Hey_Paula]

Very, very mini rant: Mr. “I hate anything vanilla” is eating all my vanilla yogurts. I do buy the fruit flavors he likes, but no, now he has to eat the vanilla ones. I just don’t get it.

[Anaamika]

Not at all a minirant: put in the paperwork for you promotion in fucking MARCH and it’s JULY and it’s still not fucking approved. I took on the new position on June 15th, and it’s a significant pay increase that I was really goddamn looking forward to and now it will be delayed.

Ugh.

[EmilyG]

@Anaamika

Not at all a minirant: put in the paperwork for you promotion in fucking MARCH and it’s JULY and it’s still not fucking approved. I took on the new position on June 15th, and it’s a significant pay increase that I was really goddamn looking forward to and now it will be delayed.

Ugh.

I hope things can get sorted out, and soon.

[Anaamika]

@EmilyG

I hope things can get sorted out, and soon.

Thank you! It will, but in the interim it’s annoying! It’s not their money, right? No hurry!
And my other minirant: Why do people go on the highway if they are not willing to go even close to the speed. Got on I-87 today in a 65 mph zone and as I came close to my exit, got behind a dude in an Escalade* that was going around 55. WHY?!?!?!?!?

Also, Escalade! Totally a dipshit move! What kind of gas mileage do they get, 12?

[Sario]

@Anaamika

Thank you! It will, but in the interim it’s annoying! It’s not their money, right? No hurry!
And my other minirant: Why do people go on the highway if they are not willing to go even close to the speed. Got on I-87 today in a 65 mph zone and as I came close to my exit, got behind a dude in an Escalade* that was going around 55. WHY?!?!?!?!?

Also, Escalade! Totally a dipshit move! What kind of gas mileage do they get, 12?

Every morning I pass a guy on the interstate who’s going about 45-50 in a 70 zone.

[raventhief]

@Lacunae_Matata

Tony’s nice streak has run out. I told him what the housemate said when I asked why she hadn’t told us about her son’s molestation: “Your daughters aren’t as pretty as mine.” Because she’s crazier than her son! (Also, her daughter is perfectly cute. And mine are beautiful. And I don’t give a shite what her justifications are - I’m armed to the teeth, and will kill someone if he hurts my little girls. Tony will gut-shoot that person though, to make sure they suffer.) Seriously?!

Also, the housemate seems to think that she will be using Boy 2.0’s truck while hers is on the disabled list. No. If you can’t be bothered to maintain your own vehicle, you aren’t using the Boy’s truck. I get that yours is “nice,” and his is just an old $900 pickup, but if you can’t be bothered to maintain your own “nice” vehicle, you sure as hell aren’t welcome to borrow his poor little truck. Because I said so, and I don’t have to offer you any justification.

On the bright side, if there can be said to be one in this horrible situation - Tony agrees. We’re done. Next offensive remark means that the housemate needs to find a different place to be. We’ve had enough with folks who can’t be bothered to respect our home, to clean up after themselves, to even take care of their own stuff that they can’t afford to repair or replace if they don’t maintain it. I’m not willing to live with the drama, I’m not willing to take the chance that someone accuses my husband or son of something untoward, etc.

I wouldn’t wait for the bitch’s next breath, much less the next offensive remark. What is wrong with her???

[curlcoat]

Every time Ron Paul comes on the TV, I think it’s Rue Paul for a second. Am I going to hell? I don’t know who Ron Paul is except he was in Congress and has a website.

[aruvqan]

Quote function not working, excuse the kludge.
Nava

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			*sniffle* I bring my own sheets and blanket because I have  fluffy microfiber plush ones so I can get to sleep without it feeling  like I am sleeping on sandpaper ... :(

Mine are just old fashioned 100% cotton, soft as down. And with night temps above 30ºC, even I have been known to sleep without a blanket; blankets are available in microfiber or 100% wool. The coverlets are also 100% cotton.
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Skin hypersensitivity. A grain of sand feels like a lego digging in for the night. If I don’t use my plushy stuff, I can’t get comfortable. It is just easier to bring my stuff rather than trank myself so I can sleep.

[Toxgoddess]

Just found out a friend has an inoperable brain tumor. Fuck brain tumors.

[Toxgoddess]

And my fish died. Not a great day.