Having read all the threads regarding the WTC right now, I figured it might be a good time for something completely unrelated. I’m not trying to turn a blind eye, but I received this e/m from a family member, and it helped me realize that life goes on, and the Mundane Pointless Stuff we see can always make us smile regardless.
And I quote:
"Because life goes on, I want to talk about something other than yesterday’s attacks. You always told me “Never let the bastards see you cry…” So, on that note: I carry on and discuss other things today.
In several of her picture books, [Niece] has been seeing pictures of icky bugs and spiders and creepy crawlies, and we always read their names to her along with the cool animals. We visit Bug World at the zoo and admire the bugs on the same level as we admire bunnies.
So, last night, pleased as punch, [Niece] came trotting up to me as happy as can be, holding out her hand and saying Bug! Bug! I was curious as to what she had (dust bunny, floor food, button?) My happy munchkin opened her hand to reveal the biggest spider I’ve ever seen in my home (no, wait! she didn’t even have to open her hand, the wiggly legs were already sticking out in all directions).
Me: Aaagh!
[Niece]: (with the smile fading rapidly from her face) Aaagh! (Drops spider on floor near my foot)
Me: (Realizing I have terrified my child) Oh! uh, aaagh, uh, umm. Nice spider!
Spider: Aaagh!
[Niece]: Pretty?
Me: yes, pretty spider…
Spider: Aaagh! (running away as fast as he can)
[BIL] gets a glass and paper and nabs spider for humane wild release program.
[Niece]: Bye-bye spider
Me: Bye spider
[BIL] (Lets wild beast loose in back yard) Bye spider
Poor girl! So pleased with herself, and me with the heebie-jeebies. The minute I freaked, she got all scared of her pretty 8-legged pet. Well, I guess I’m going to have to learn not to get all scared of the wildlife she brings home…"
Again, I’m not trying to downplay anything at all. I just hope that my sister’s little girl will help us keep our chins up and laughing when all around us is chaos.
Cheers.