I’m with you on that one. Other than family that is… 
Jenny*
Surely this is a compliment?
Because I don’t like strangers and casual acquaintances touching me.
Nothing more to add, cept I’m still laughing.
And yes a pox on sweatpants!
Man, I totally responded to this thread and my post ain’t here. Stupid Board! Harumph.
Anyway, like I was saying, I thought hillbilly queen wasn’t talking about inadvertant hard-ons so much as the intentional/drunked grope-or-grind. I’ve received a couple of both. The worst was when I was a bridesmaid at a wedding. One of the groomsmen (whom I had only met at the rehearsal, and couldn’t recall his name) hugged me and kept me trapped while he ran his hand down my back to squeeze my butt. In full view of his girlfriend. And the rest of the room.
A guy who lived in my dorm in college had the hots for a girl. She gave him the speech about not liking him that way, and when they did the post-talk hug he actually ejaculated. Must have been a hell of a hug.
The reason I know this happened is because he went around telling people about it. He was quickly nicknamed “Squirt”. I can’t imagine why he would think it was a good idea to tell others about his little mishap.
My mommy said that when two parents want a baby and love each other very much, they have a “special hug.” Is that what you mean?
You mean, no guys besides your SOs have been more than casual acquaintances? 
You mean other than my co-workers? I have only two people that could accurately called friends or anything more than casual acquaintances, and I see them all of a few hours maybe once every two months.
I shake hands with strangers often but it doesn’t go past that.
I don’t like people touching me that aren’t my SO.
This is getting not at all dissimilar to the “Personal Space” thread in IMHO. It seems Jin is not in the minority about being touched, etc.
Especially in the US.
Only once have I gotten a hug with change … and the young man was gayer than pink ink. As if I didn’t have enough gender confusion in my life.