Ladies, what would YOU do?

Great Debates
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Ladies, a question for you of the fairer sex. (HA!)

Suppose you decided that you would like to dance topless for whatever reason (say, the great pay) and you have a significant other who, upon hearing this, becomes rather upset and demands that you do not do this thing. Suppose you either love each other or are real close to it.

Well? Your response?

Suppose he says that if you go dancing on stage, showing your boobies to hoards of strange guys, that he will leave you?

I am aware of one woman who chose to dance, and promptly lost her lover of several years. She said that it was her body and what she chose to do with it was her business.

I am also aware of another woman who chose not to dance, and kept her lover of several years, deciding that he was worth far more than the pleasure and money she would get from the job.

And, you?

2

Isn’t it obvious?

In a few years, we will have anti-discrimination laws that apply to dating and relationships. It will be illegal to dump your partner if she dances topless. :rolleyes:

3

I’m not a woman (more’s the pity…just kidding!) but I couldn’t resist putting in my 2 cents. Everybody has free will when it comes to relationships. Sure, she’s totally free to put her body on stage to be ogled by strange men. And he is just as free to take himself elswhere if she does so. So for the woman it’s a simple equation: which does she want more, the job or her man? As you’ve already discovered, opinions vary. I am personally of the opinion though that if anyone says they “love” another person, yet willingly does something they know hurts or upsets that person, they don’t know what love is.

4

I wonder if her ex-fella was allowed to do with his body whatever he wished. Like putting part of it in the woman next door if he was so inclined?

5

If I were inclined to dance topless, I dont think I would spend my time with a guy who disaproved of it.

I had a guy once that disapproved of almost everthing I did. Never again. Staying true to yourself is a prerequisite for staying true to others.

I dont think he should leave her as much as she should leave him.