Considering the long, convoluted saga of my husband’s medical needs over the past couple of years, it’s perhaps a little surprising that I/we don’t have pages and pages to add to this thread. His doctors have been fabulous, though, as have the hospital- and home-based nurses, the therapists, the nurse-practitioner/case manager, etc. The unsatisfactory is almost entirely from the insurance company (a county self-insurance program that covers workers compensation for the majority of the counties in my state.)
At exactly the 2-year mark after Tony’s wreck, the insurance company started denying everything. (Coincidentally, two years is the statute of limitations for filing suit against a government entity in Georgia. Funny how that works.*) A scheduled, medically necessary shoulder surgery was cancelled, Tony was sent for an “independent medical evaluation,” and (shocking!) the 77-year-old doctor who works primarily as a witness for insurance companies decided that Tony was just hunky dory. Tony requested a second IME (from a doctor of his choosing, as is his legal right.) The third doctor confirmed that Tony is not hunky dory, that he needs shoulder surgery, along with further work on his back/hip/groin injuries. Months later? Still being denied treatment. Not because of a problem with healthcare providers, but with insurance.
The only actual problem we’ve had with a health practitioner (other than Dr. Insurance Witness) was a week after the wreck that led to Tony being airlifted to the trauma center. Two residents? interns? don’t know, but neither was quite as old as the shoes I was wearing that day came to discharge Tony, straight home, that afternoon - no intermediate care, no in-home help, nothing. I argued, yelled, got on the phone with Tony’s orthopaedist and patient relations and the head of nursing. The surgical floor head nurse stood right there next to me, arguing with the MDs. Tony won the argument the easy way: he fainted. Twice. Bought himself another night in the trauma center, which was fortunate - the next day’s imaging showed the kidney bleed that had dropped his hemoglobin to 6.9, requiring two blood transfusions. He stayed in the hospital another six days, then went to hospital-based rehab for another week, and then came home, with in-home nursing assistance for several hours per week for a few more weeks. (Hell, half of Tony’s injuries weren’t diagnosed until at least a week after the wreck - the doctor would fix one thing, to the point where Tony noticed the next thing hurt pretty badly, more imaging, more treatment, lather, rinse, repeat.)
*Someone in the HR department apparently didn’t read the entire file. Our attorney actually filed notice about six months after the wreck, preserving our right to sue. Neener neener neener. However, convincing Tony to move forward with a suit? Problem. He’s afraid that, if he sues, he’ll be blackballed from the profession he loves. The people who love him, however, are trying to make him see that, if he isn’t able to sit up for more than an hour, or walk for more than a few minutes, and he’s getting worse, not better (thanks to degenerative changes in his spinal injuries, mostly)? His point is moot. He needs to look out for himself, for his family, and for his future.