I don’t think Sophie was ever rude to Alec, Eliot or Parker. She was frosty to Nate, though.
But that was way before the episode where Parker was trapped in the building. In that episode she was rude to the doctor lady, but that was all part of the con.
I enjoy the show quite a bit but neither does anything for me at all (which is why I didn’t vote). I enjoy the Parker character more as long as she doesn’t try to “act”–her rapport with Hardison is great fun but trying to give her more “depth” has been a failure, IMHO. But Sophie has zero chemistry with everyone, so her character is servicable but not very interesting. And neither are so gorgeous or smokin’ hot that my male libido overwhelms all other variables.