In this post, you dropped in an irrelevant side comment about the term “fundie” being hateful. (I say irrelevant not because it’s not meaningful grounds for discussion - it is - but because the thread, “Should lying be a bannable offense?” didn’t really pertain to the word “fundie” or to hate speech.)
We’ve discussed the issue before, you and I - and frankly, I felt like you didn’t try hard to justify why it’s hate speech. The idea seems to be pretty axiomatic to you, and you haven’t really taken the time (at least that I’ve seen) to explain why, even in your thread, "Why isn’t ‘fundie’ hate speech?’ (probably because it turned into rather a train wreck before you had much chance.) Personally, I’m probably more open to the notion than you’d imagine - I don’t think it’s necessarily wrong. But here’s where you lose me.
More than once (in fact, in every thread I’ve noticed you discussing the issue) you made an analogy to words used for gay people. I think that analogy falls flat. This is why.
When I hear the word “faggot”, I jump visibly. My heart rate increases. My breathing quickens. In fact, I briefly enter fight-or-flight until I can be sure I’m not in danger. It’s not that I live in eternal fear, but the reptilian part of my brain takes over when I hear that word. Especially if it’s shouted. I’ve never been subject to violence for being gay. Not any serious violence anyway - a few bruises and bloody noses in high school are probably pretty normal, even if the attackers come three at a time. But like most gay people, I’m aware of what “Hey, Faggot!” signifies. Because people I know have gotten the shit beat out of them, even in this day and age. When I hear the word, especially if I’m alone, part of my brain immediately works to decide if my life is in danger, and if so, what I should do.
I don’t mean to revel here in my own (few) bad experiences, or those of other gay people, because all in all, I live a pretty good life. But the power of language is such that it evokes reactions in people that they can’t help.
I don’t think “Hey Fundie!” ever precedes violence. I’ve never heard of “fundie-bashing” besides maybe unpleasant words on message boards. I think fundamentalist Christians, however they may be treated by other groups, are rarely if ever in danger of their safety or their lives because they are fundamentalist Christians.
Hate speech is more than just rudeness; it’s more than just lumping people together and prejudging them. I don’t think you’ve ever experienced having real hate directed at you because of your religious beliefs. Most gay people have felt that hate - the kind of hate that scares you because you know what has happened to others in the same situation.
So that’s why I don’t think the situations are analogous. I realized that last time, I didn’t really bother to explain why I thought your analogy was flawed, but there it is. Liberal, I hope you read this. If you do, please let me know what you think and why the term “fundie” shares the same weight to you. “Faggot” isn’t just impolite, or unconducive to debate, or unfair - it hits me in the gut and fills me with fear. It’s a reflexive reaction. I really don’t think people have that reaction to the word “fundie”.