Sorry, but you guessed wrong. I haven’t used the term “hand stabber” (until this moment) since May of 2004, in this post…
…which was in response to a question from Epimethus similar to yours…
The three main arguments that I’ve heard for excepting “fundie” from the nebulous hate-speech list are all logical train wrecks.
The Fundie Is Just A Handy Abbreviation For Fundamentalist Argument:
Right. And “homo” is just a handy abbreviation for “homosexual”, but seldom if ever do people use the term “homo” merely as an abbreviation. They use it as a pejorative. Once, when I pointed this out, the retort I got was something like, “Well, I’m gay, and I say homo all the time.” All that did was move the argument from ridiculous to sublimely ridiculous. Blacks often say “nigger” too, but they view it quite differently (and understandably so) when non-Blacks say it.
The Tell Me How Many Christians Have Been Lynched Argument:
Possibly the most bizarre of them all, this argument begs that the opponent supply evidence of people being physically violated just because of their Christian faith. Although it is true that history is rife with Christian violence against non-Christians, it is equally rife the other way around. From the lion feeding frenzies in Nero’s Rome to the murderous crusades in Stalinist Russia, violence against Christians has been institutionalized. And today, violence against Christians is occurring from India to Laos to Indonesia. Lumping all fundamentalists together as a group that deserves contempt is as ethically blind as lumping any other group together the same way.
The Blacks Can’t Change Their Skin Color And Gays Can’t Change Their Orientation But Christians Can Change Their Beliefs Argument:
While it might be true for some people that faith is a synonym for lip-service, for many others, including some atheists, faith or non-faith is a product of a person’s experience. A person can no more change it than he can change the fact that he’s been to New York. For a person who has had a personal experience with God (whether you believe him to be delusional is irrelevant), denying his faith would be downright psychotic. I’ve heard from atheists on this board who have explained that they cannot “choose” to believe in God anymore than they can “choose” to believe that one plus one is three. And I completely understand that. But the converse is also true. Those who have an abiding and sincere faith in God are not capable of “choosing” not to believe. Their experience might later cause them to change their beliefs, and as well it might go the other way around — a conversion from faithless to faithful. But these aren’t conscious choices, they’re life lessons.
Many people who do not share the Christian faith rightly recognize the meaning that underlies the word, and rather than cling to some tenuous, disengenuous, or hypocritical argument about how their usage of a pejorative is somehow different or exceptional, choose to take the high road of civilized discourse. At the Positive Atheism letters forum, for example, usage of the term “fundie” is expressly discouraged:
Finally — and this is directed solely to Excalibre — my comment was not an irrelevant aside. The entire statement was:
It was a comment on whether lying should be a bannable offense, and offered the theory that it should be “when it is a material part of breaking the rules”. Breaking the rules includes so-called hate-speech. I listed two examples, which, if they had been “faggot” and “nigger” instead of “faggot” and “fundie”, it is my opinion that this thread would not now exist.
The irrelevant aside is this thread.