I’m not sure this is a TVTrope, as I haven’t ever seen it, but it sounds like it should be one. Is there one for when a very stolid, unemotional person (think Daria or Lilith from Cheers/Frasier) does experience a mood swing but does so in a typically stoic manner? Usually they’ll say something like “Sorry, I didn’t mean to get so choked up”–the joke being they didn’t really.
It’s one I’ve seen before, but I’ve never seen it on TVTropes.
Thanks!