To clarify, I’m more than happy to refer to people from Asia by whatever they wish to be called and as far as I can recall have always referred to folks from these parts as Asian. And that carries over to refer to people from any ethnicity or culture or sexual orientation by their preferred term. It’s simply common courtesy. Asian is a fine default, and I have 3 Amer-Asian daughters.
For those that are actually interested in the subject, here’s a link to the 50th anniversary of "Asian American: “During that first session, the group coined the concept and the term, Asian-American, and officially founded the Asian American Political Alliance. Wong says they immediately looked around at each other and knew they had created something special and that they were representing more than just themselves.”
Ironically, I’m on a business trip in China right now, and some search results are blocked or I would cite some of the original coverage of the “Asian-American” founding.
Here’s a link, and a wiki(caveat, I am not able to access in China so have not read the content), and Karen Ishizuka’s researched book review on this history of the Asian American Political Alliance, the Declaration of Asian American Political Alliance 1969, biography of Richard Aoki, Asian American Black Panther, and if you care to here are some FBI investigation records into the Asian-American Political Alliance..
FWIW, personal anecdote, when I was in university in the US in the 1980’s, I studied Mandarin in the Oriental Languages department. At the same university, I also had an half Japanese half American Caucasian girlfriend, who together with her other Amer-Asian buddies referred to themselves as “ornamentals” on occasion. Harvard still has Asiatic Studies. But they are probably the only US university still using *that *term, which has a lot more baggage than “oriental”.
Net net, I have passing personal, linguistic and academic familiarity with both the terms Asian American and Oriental. So I trust I have clarified that I have no issue referring to Asians (instead of Oriental), but take umbrage at statements such as “we weren’t supposed to say “orient” anymore”.