Okay, as mentioned in another thread, I’m not a dietician. However, I cook for my husband, who has dropped 70 pounds in the past year, and whose cholesterol and blood pressure have dropped accordingly. Mr. M is so southern I should refer to him as Bubba, loves food, and has been surprised that his “diet” (lifestyle change) has been relatively painless.
First off, liking vegetables is a good thing. There’s the advantage of living in hot, muggy, buggy Georgia: long growing season/great fresh produce almost year-round. Fill up half of your plate with veggies (prepared with a minimum of pork products, of course. Adding a smoked turkey wing or a little dab of ham to your greens won’t kill you. But use some common sense.) Before I start cooking dinner, I chop up a bowl of raw veggies to tide everyone over - cucumbers, tomatoes, bell pepper, whatever’s around. Everyone is free to munch at will, so I’m not rushing like a maniac, trying to get whatever is fastest on the table - gives me time to really give thought to the meal, and appetites are blunted a bit by their preprandial snacking.
Beans and rice are also a good thing - in fact, that was tonight’s dinner at our house. I seasoned the beans with defatted ham stock, so they had a nice smoky flavor without the extra fat/cholesterol. Brown rice is good, but if it tastes “wrong” to you, beans and white rice aren’t as bad as all that. My family will eat brown rice with other meals, but not beans. It’s still a healthy and filling meal. For red beans and rice, I make my normal recipe, but I use turkey sausage, which is browned before adding to the bean pot - drain the fat in the pan, of course.
Also - fat-free buttermilk is a great marinade for many low-fat meats, which tend to be dry: chicken breast, pork tenderloin, etc. Brining is also a Good Thing.
The big thing? All things in moderation. An egg won’t kill you. A piece of chocolate won’t kill you. Learn what portion sizes really look like. And if you’re a stress eater, before you reach for something to crunch on, tell yourself "I can have some after I’ve … " whatever. Taken a walk around the block. Put a load of laundry in the wash. Painted my nails and let them dry. If you still want that snack, find something modestly not terrible for you to crunch on. A cup of dry cereal (I’m partial to Apple Jacks, myself.) A small individual-serving bag of chips. A square of really good chocolate.