Make Me Feel Better, with Horrible Neighbor Tales

It’s your decision here who the horrible neighbor really was; I know where my sympathies lie.

My parents own a very nice, very large house situated on the top of a small hill. Back when I was living with them, we had a new family move in across the street.

Now, a few ‘should be obvious’ facts. A hill is only a hill because it is higher than the ground around it. Ergo, the land outside of our property- such as, say, my neighbor’s place- would be on lower ground. Water rolls downhill. Ergo, when rain falls upon our property, it rolls downhill into the surrounding, lower land. Such as my neighbor’s property.

The previous neighbors had built a small ditch near the street in order to collect the rainwater that flowed into their property; after all, otherwise, their front yard would become a swamp. New neighbors decided that the ditch made their front yard looked bad, and filled in the ditch. Needless to say, next time it rained, their yard filled with water and became a morass. New neighbors decided that this was our fault because much of the offending water was rolling off our property, and therefore it was our responsibility to build a ditch in our property. This started with a phone call as a request for us to build a ditch. My father, not one to suffer fools lightly, pointed out that the realtor and previous owners had explained the situation to new neighbor, and new neighbor buying the house meant the acceptance that it was new neighbor’s problem, not my fathers.

Next rainfall, new neighbor calls us and bitchs out my father for not having built a ditch. For the next several storms, new neighbor would call our house and shout a string of profanities at whomever picked up the phone (including, at one point, my eleven year-old sister) about us ‘selfish bastards’ and his ‘property values’ etc.

That winter, it snowed. (Oh, yeah, big surprise. Sorry; I’m not good at segues yet.) Our road was way the hell away from the main roads, and usually didn’t get cleared until late in the evening. As a result, usually my father hired a private snowplow to come clear our street so that he and the rest of the neighborhood could get to work.

The first time he did this after new neighbor moved in (and remember, we’ve had all summer to receive nasty notices and calls from new neighbor), the police showed up on our door that night. The police officers politely informed us that new neighbor had called them to complain about the snowplow my father had hired; specifically, that the snowplow had taken all of the snow off the street and maliciously dumped in into new neighbor’s driveway so as to prevent him from being able to leave his house. My father, seething, explained to the police that no such order had been given, and he pointed to the sides of the street where snow had been pushed as it usually was. The police were friendly and bored, and obviously knew they were being sent off to deal with a crank call, and pleasantly left.

My father fumed for a while, partly out of pure exasperation over new neighbor, partly out of self-kicking that he hadn’t thought to tell the snow plow to do that in the first place. Eventually, we all went to sleep; and the new neighbor didn’t complain about us for a few years (though relations were always strained).

I’m not sure what finally drove it into new neighbor’s head that he should shut the hell up- whether it was his lawyer telling him that there was no law forcing us to build a ditch for the rainwater; the cops telling him not to waste their time again; or the fact that, the night after the police showed up, my father rose from bed at 3 in the morning, snuck over to the neighbor’s driveway, and performed some impromptu surgery on new neighbor’s van’s engine with a ballpeen hammer.
Nothing to compare to Phil’s story, I admit, but the thought of my father skulking through the snow with ballpeen hammer in hand and malice in mind always makes me laugh.

I lived in a condo complex for a while that had a few units (like mine) rented out. I was told the landlady (I’ll call her Elmira) lived in Europe somewhere, and that is was managed by a local company. Fine. After living there for six or seven months, I’m awakened at 6 am on a Sunday by knocking. I ignore it. It continues. I get up and stumble to the door.

“Hi!” says the lady.
“Um…hi?” “I just wanted you to know that I’m selling my condo!”
“Great,” I say. “Which one is it?”
“This one!”
“Excuse me? Who are you?”
“I’m Elmira. Bye!”

And she leaves. WTF? I call the rental company, and they have no idea. Finally I get a hold of her, and ask what’s going on. She says she’s selling it. I say okay, is this an eviction notice then? She assures me she’s only going to sell it to someone who wants it as an investment. Fine. I ask her to give me at least 24 hours notice before she shows the place. She agrees.

Cut to one week away. Sunday morning. 7:30am. No freaking call.

“Hi!”
“Oh, it’s you. Hi.”
She barges past me, hauling in a decrepit old couple, and starts showing them around. As I stand there, getting more and more pissed, I hear this from the old man.
“I don’t know if we can get our Craftmatic bed in here.”
“No problem!” says Elmira. “Justin will help you move in, I’m sure!”

Oh, you evil wench. I gave my 30 day notice that day. These intrusions happened at least three times a week until I moved out. This woman was a nut.

Former landlord of mine used to have darn near seismic make-out sessions on the couch in the room next to mine. I mean that literally. He shook my room (he was a BIG guy). It was beyond embarrassing, if I had company over. And, oh yeah, there were sound effects, too.

Oh man… bad neighbors.

Let’s see… while I was growing up, the house next door was owned by some kind of slum-lord type who would rent this nice suburban Houston home to anyone and everyone who came knocking, and for super-cheap.

Let’s see… over 15 years we had:

Hillbilly white trash with naked kids & cars on blocks in the yard, and 18 wheelers occasionally parked & running in front of the house. (2 different sets)

Dope fiends who had a Police raid on the house(crack house?)

A really strange drag queen & his dimwitted/retarded companion, who the drag queen would push around in a grocery store cart when they went out for walks.
(It’s a strange sight to see a bearded, 6’4" drag queen in a frilly robe pushing some guy down the street in a Kroger cart)
The hillbillies weren’t all that bad- they were at least nice to us, but they were just sort of gross- VERY similar to Cousin Eddie’s family in National Lampoon’s Vacation.

The dope fiends were pretty much quiet, well, until the cops showed up.

The drag queen & his buddy were by far the worst. It had nothing to do with the cross dressing or homosexuality strangely enough(considering the area). These two dudes had this bizarre compassion for any stray dog they saw, so they’d take them home, and then not feed them enough. So these dogs would take to fighting among themselves, howling at the moon, or just barking constantly at all hours. These guys had a herd of feral cats which did the same things, except for screeching instead of barking.

They never mowed their lawns, front or back in the entire 2 years they lived there, they broke our fence, their dogs would climb over all the crap they had piled up in their backyard & get into our yard & tear stuff up, howl, crap on everything, etc… I used to put full trash bags on the back porch for a day or two until trash pickup before these guys, but with the advent of the dog pack, any trash on the back porch would become foul-smelling confetti which I’d have to go laboriously pick up while fighting the dogs off. As you can imagine, I was fit to be tied.

They’d have parties to all hours of the night, they’d have these dramatic screaming fights in their front yard and ours whereupon they’d scream “Bitch!” and “Whore!” at each other & slap each other around in some kind of bizarre cat-fight.

Probably the worst was that they’d go around in various stages of undress. It’s just wrong for a grown man to go around on a Saturday morning clad in bunny slippers & a banana hammock wearing lipstick, mascara & eyeshadow. Gay or not, that’s just plain unattractive. Oh… did I leave out the 4 day growth of beard?

The one funny thing in this whole bit was the discovery that my father is a regular font of malicious creativity. Once the dog-pack started keeping us up at night, and they started tearing up our backyard, Dad asked them to control their dogs & clean their place up since it was such a pit. They didn’t comply, so Dad embarked on a terrorist harassment campaign(almost surely illegal), which I’m not going to go into here.

Dad did a good number on the dogs though. Being of a less violent nature than me(I had taken to shooting the dogs with my pellet gun every chance I got, only because I couldn’t find the .22), Dad filled up an old-time type insecticide powder sprayer with cayenne pepper, and every time those dogs would get up on our fence & start howling, he’d creep out there, stick this sprayer over the fence, and start pumping madly, blowing this gigantic cloud of cayenne pepper on that side of the fence. Those dogs learned pretty damn fast!

Eventually, the harassment seemingly paid off, and they moved out. They had come by one day looking very tense & scared and asked “Did somebody come by looking for us?” So Dad, who didn’t know what the hell they were talking about is like “Yeah! He came by twice… and he looked pissed!”. They cleared out really quickly- leaving a bunch of crap & an entire room filled with garbage bags full of garbage.

A few years ago, I get a call from my wife, who is so agitated that she can’t speak straight. I get her to calm down a little, and the story comes out.

It’s the day of midterms at the local high school, so the students only go half a day. The neighbor at the rear of our house has a teenage daughter, and she has a boyfriend. Since the parents were working, they were taking full advantage of the situation.

They had opened the drapes in front of the picture window, and were getting it on, enjoying the sunshine. My wife was walking through our house, looked out the back window, and was shocked! I told her not to worry, I’d handle it.

When I got home that evening, I brought a big banner (made from computer paper) that read in large letters “NEXT TIME, CLOSE THE DRAPES”. I posted it on the back door when I could see the daughter sitting watching TV. I could see her get up, squint to read it, take off running, then come back and slam the drapes closed. Next day, the living room had been rearranged. There have been no repeat performances since then.

Well, I wasn’t going to post this, since they weren’t really bad neighbors, but…

I lived in a one-bedroom, top-floor corner apartment for a couple of years (meaning I had one neighbor & the folks downstairs). When I first moved in the couple next door were very quiet - I think I heard their child cry once when I was home, and that late on a weekend morning and only very faintly.

They moved out when she got pregnant a second time and I had no neighbor at all for six months.

Then, the athletic couple moved in. They woke me up several times with everyone’s favorite rhythmic banging on the wall, but I’m a pretty deep sleeper so I wasn’t bothered too often and shrugged it off. (The downstairs neighbor who played mariachi music at 7:30 a.m. on Saturdays was more of a pain to my way of thinking.)

Then they started fighting at all hours, and making up. This was more disturbing, and tended to keep me up. However, I’m not the type to make waves, so I never said anything. I only saw the woman once, and I never saw her companion.

The final straw, though, was one arguement that started at seven at night, announced in my apartment by something hard striking the adjoining wall hard enough to knock some knick-nacks off their shelf. I put headphones on and went back to writing - but this arguement was still raging when I went to bed at midnight. They didn’t hear me knock on the door and I really wasn’t sure I wanted to get involved anyway…

So I finally get to sleep.

The time is now two a.m., and I am awoken by tap-tap-tap-squeak-tap against the wall. tap-tap-tap-thump-thump-THUMP-THUMP-WHAM! giggle giggle giggle.

They were evicted the next day. Don’t know if the nocturnal activities had anything to do with it, though.

I have had some annoying neighbors, and one who used to call the fire department whenever her smoke detectors would give that “my battery is low” chirp.

My favorite bad neighbor story, though, is from the summer I was living alone. My grad-school roommate had graduated and moved home. She paid the rent for the rest of the summer, and I had the place all to myself.

This was a fourth-floor walk-up in downtwon Boston. Not a bad neighborhood, but not the best neighborhood, either.

One morning while showering I noticed that a couple of pigeons were bulding a nest in an old, empty flower pot on my fire escape. (the shower had a window in it). I thought “Well, I don’t really like pigeons, but I’m sure they’ll be kind of cute once they have babies.”

They built the nest, then laid two eggs, both of which hatched. The babies were a bit annoying with their chirping and whatnot, but, as predicted, kind of cute.

This was a really hot, hot, dry summer.

Most of the way through August it occurred to me that I hadn’t heard the babies chirping for a whil, so I took a look out on the fire escape during my next shower. I saw one parent sitting in the nest, and the other parent coming and going, but no movement in the nest. I must have startled them, because they both flew away. I looked closer…

…and discovered that the one pigeon had been sitting on their dead babies. Not just dead, mind you, but long dead and skeletonized!

My fledgling appreciation for pigeons withered and died. I hate them to this day and think they are horrid repulsive creatures.

I was so creeped out, I had to get one of my friends to go out on the fire escape and dispose of the flower pot.

This is hardly a “bad neighbor” story but . . .

My across-the-street neighbor is a very elderly widowed woman who lavishes attention and affection on her cat. She thinks this cat is the most delicate and vulerable creature, which is hysterical because it’s this huge unaltered Tom that kicks the crap out of all the neighborhood animals, including my cocker spaniel and my other neighbors’ very sweet Rottweiler.

You can hear this elderly woman roaming the neighborhood at dark every night, calling in her old, quavery voice: “Buuuucky . . . Buuuuuucky . . . .” Of course, the cat comes home when he wants to and not one minute before. The irony is that he’s such a mean and crappy cat – fights with the other animals, gets in the garbage, yowls in the middle of the night – I think people would say something to her about controlling him better, if she wasn’t such a sweet old lady and if it wasn’t so clear who wears the pants in their relationship – and it ain’t Grandma. But I guess inconveniences you’re willing to put up with doesn’t qualify as “bad neighbors,” though if Bucky got hit by a garbage truck, I wouldn’t cry. It would about kill the old lady, though, so I can’t even wish for that.

I have to hijack this thread briefly. I once had an office with a very narrow window overlooking a window ledge that harbored a pigeon’s nest (i.e. 15 years of accumulated pigeon crap and twigs). (For you computer theory geeks out there, I labelled this the Principal Pigeon Hole.) So I am prepared to avow that there is NO point in the pigeon’s life cycle at which they can be said to be cute. The chicks are the ugliest, scrawniest, spikiest things outside a hard rock music video. I was pretty happy when a red-tailed hawk moved onto campus and started doing pigeon take-out.

Oh…bad neighbor stories. In my last apartment, I had a young couple with a child living above me. One night around midnight, I heard a rhythmic pounding. No, not that kind of rhythmic pounding… In fact, I couldn’t place it at all. Every five or 10 seconds, the house would shake. This went on for a few weeks, always at night. Late at night. Finally I stopped them in the yard and asked what was going on. Turns out it was their baby in his Jolly Jumper. He got restless every midnight, so they let him jump his little heart out. Well, this defused my wrath, so I just suggested a foam pad and slunk off.

Pretty small change compared to some of the low life neighbors mentioned here…

In the late 80s my wife and had two neighbors that, if not down to the standards set by other posters’ stories, still tended to lower the contentment level in the area.

The house behind us contained “The Shouters,” a family where every conversation took place at high volume and full venom. The husband was never satisfied with anything his wife did, and complained at levels that reached through our double-paned windows. She was similarly dissatisfied with his performance of most tasks, and let him and the neighbors know. And both of them let the two boys, a 7-yr old and 5-yr old, know just how badly they were screwing up all the time. When the boys would play in the back yard, it consisted of the 7-yr old bullying the 5 yr-old at full volume, and the 5 yr-old, to complete the cliche, bullying the cat. And we would get a special treat when the wife’s mother would come to visit.

In the house to our right was a 14/15 yr-old boy with a drum set in the garage. His two friends with guitars would come over and “practice.” This usually consisted of them getting 20 seconds into “Stairway to Heaven” and breaking down in chaos, then starting again, 20 seconds, starting again, and on and on. They never completed a single tune the entire time we lived there.

The neighbors to the right of us are great…well, NOW they are.
The man is a guy who graduated with my dad-we’ll call him Jake. Jake was in Vietnam, he has a beard, long hair, bandana, and he’s incredibly nice. He goes on vacation, he always brings us something back. When my mom was feeding their dog once, and it bit my sister because some moron set off firecrackers, he made sure everything was okay.
His ex-WIFE…however…was psychotic. My mother swears she must’ve been bipolar-NOT that there is anything wrong with that…she would just go on these regular cycles…
She’d ride her motorcycle through the back of our yard…she’d pull our fence out of our yard and throw it on our porch until my father told her off. She’d make up stupid fights about the kids.
Well, this woman was rather large, especially in the chest area. And she’d wear these really skimpy tank tops that showed everything and she looked so gross! My friend and I called her “Basketballs”
ONe night, my friend and I were down by the firehall, waiting for her dad, who was a volunteer fireman. Afterwards, we walked back up to my house through the yards, including Basketballs’s. We were talking about her, but we did NOT use her name-we were just making up new names for her (Melons, Waterjugs, etc.)
We were just about to climb up the little hill to my house from her’s when Basketballs JUMPED out of the bushes holding some black case.
Us: “Aaaahhh!”
Basketballs: Girls, do you know what this is?
Me: No
Basketballs: It’s a microrecorder
ME: So?
Basketballs: I just recorded everything you said.

I was so stunned I just looked and her and then sputtered out, “Well, FINE!” before stomping off to my kitchen. Lauren and I were soooo freaked. My dad had a good laugh about it though. He told us how pathetic it was for a 32 year old woman to be taping the conversation of 11 year olds.
Jake soon divorced her and has custody of his kids. He’s the nicest guy, and she’s nowhere to be seen.

THEN, there are my neighbors on the left side. White Trash Family Sans Trailor.
The kids were pulled out of school last year-because neither of them were doing their homework and all they did were to get into fights. WTGirl is 15 and WTBoy is 13. WTMom CLAIMS to be “Homeschooling” them. Um, yeah sure.
We used to be friends with these people, but they’re sick.
Their dog shits in the yard and they NEVER clean it up. They just mow the lawn right over it, and it STINKS so BAD. They stay up all hours of the night screaming and yelling and swearing so violently…they wake us up early in the morning screaming, “Ah, kids, get this fucking dog in here!” “Ah, get the fucking dog yourself, mom!”
(The woman used to tell the kids when they were little that she would beat the fuck out of them…nice).
Their house is a mess. The dog pisses and shits on the floors…the cats aren’t fixed and are always going at it under our windows.
The worst is when they start fires in the backyard with lighterfluid over their grill-not to BBQ-just to start fires.
The first time my mom saw this, she went and complained to WTMom. WTMom got very defensive and told her to butt out.
MY mom did. The next morning, our car was covered in rotten lettuce and shredded carrots.
Now we just stay away from them. I wish to god they would fucking MOVE! The youngest daughter is still in school…wonder how long that will last!

And I thought we had it bad.
I live in a really nice condo complex with only one building that allows dogs. Its actually very nice because I know all my neighbors and if I ever need someone to take care of my dogs, I have quite a few people to help me out.

In a fashion known only to God, the salespeople managed to sell condos in our (dog building) to people who didn’t own dogs. Who would, (I’m sure you’re following me here) would then move in and commece complaining about the dogs.

One non-dog lover, whom I will call Bart, (this will make sense later)Went to the managment office and filed a complaint against me for taking my dogs in the elevator. I could go into the whole mess about that, but the really cool thing about Bart making this complaint was that when you file a formal complaint, you have to state the specific date and time of the incident. Bart claims to have seen my border collie mutt and minature pinscher in the elevator at 10 am on a Friday morning. Apparently, they were tired of waiting for me to come home from work and got their own set of keys. I was so furious at Bart that I went to his apt (he lives on the same floor) and ripped him a new one. No one in the building would talk to him after that.

Then about once a week, the fire department and paramedics would be at our building. For a while we had no idea what was going on. Turns out that Bart is a manic depressive who also happens to be an alcoholic. It seems he goes on these little benders and has to be hospitalized. He used to be able to call 911 himself, but now he has no phone. One morning around 6 am he tried to get into a downstairs apt
my friend who lives across the hall from the apt Bart was attempting to enter, looked out her peep hole to see Bart pounding on the door in his underware and a sportcoat. They took him away again about an hour later.

Last week, I was late to work because he had passed out in his hallway, proping the door to his apartment open. Just laid there, face down, on a comforter. When the police got there, I said “he’s at it again” the cop said “who” so of course I had to say “oh you must be new”

Most recently, I was woken up on Sunday morning around 8 because it sounded like my larger dog was trying to kill whoever was in the hall. I jumped out of bed and opened the door, to see a fireman walking back down the hallway. I had to scream at Zac because I was afraid he would attack him. (he’s never attacked anything in his life, but you wouldn’t have known that if you could have heard him)
Fireman asks if I called 911 and I told him probably check on Bart. Of course thats what it was.
My favorite part of this whole episode is that I found out later that around 6 am that Sunday, he had somehow managed to get himself stuck in the elevator. He would call for help on the emergancy phone and then hang up. Making prank calls from the elevator. When they asked what his name was, he told them he was Bart Simpson.

I wish he would have a cow and it would fall on him!

I had neighbors that would have loud parties that would start at 10-11pm and go till 4am or so. Turns out they were charging money and serving alcohol at the parties. Someone mentioned this at work- I heard them giving directions to -my- house and mentioning parties. I asked a bit, got the info, and in a few months the drunken running around the yard and yelling incoherently at all hours stopped, and they moved out.

A week after they moved out, I learned what happens to deckchairs when they sit in the bay for a year.

Fuzzy.

When I was in college (well, actually the year between college and law school, when I learned that man can live on macaroni and cheese, popcorn, and beer) a friend was taking a class at the community college. Her professor regularly bitched about the band down the street that regularly started practicing around 11 p.m., sometimes as late as 1 a.m.
I found that somewhat amusing. Hey, our lead guitarist didn’t get off work at the pizza shop 9Papa Del’s for any who know) until then! I mean, the guy was acting like he had something to do all day other than sleep at the pool! Sheesh.

Suffice it to say we got to know all of the local cops quite well during that summer. “Yes officer, we’ll turn it down this time.” Right!

So, at the risk of hijacking, any times that you guys were the “horrible neighbor”?

Holy cow, I almost laughed my ass off at this one!

What the hell is a banana hammock? The whole image is just priceless.

My sister could write a book on crazy neighbors. She once had a downstairs neighbor who called himself “Father Ignatious”. He would have his boyfriends over all the time and very odd music and sounds would come up through the floorboards. One morning she got up and there was an actual alter/shrine on the front porch and the bay window was covered with a black cloth. Shortly thereafter all you could hear was this unbelieveable racking cough. It sounded like Doc Holiday had taken up residence. When he finally moved out, my sister started getting some of his mail by accident. It was addressed to some really plain name like “Joe Smith”, and it was all extreme weird gay stuff, catalogs, etc. Just plain bizarre.

Zette

Really, really skimpy bikini briefs. Much like what bodybuilders wear. It might have been a thong, but I didn’t spend much time looking!

This guy was woefully out of shape to be wearing one at all, much less in his front yard on a Saturday morning!

Bump you get my vote for the most colorful neighbor. I gotta admit that a tranvestite in a thong is not something I see every day.

Here are a few of my most memorable neighbors in no particular order.

. meek little guy 5’2" 100 lbs who every midnight would engage his girlfriend in the loudest, most raucous Who’s your daddy? type sex I’ve ever heard. It sounded like a murder was taking place.

. redneck guy who bred fighting pit bulls. I love dogs, have 2 of my own, but these dogs were just evil. He would starve them, beat them, have them bite a stick and swing them around until they lost their grip at which point he would beat them again. He had a pair of jeans(with socks and boots attached WTF?) tied up in a tree and he would sic the dogs on them. And he encouraged his dogs to try to attack my 12 lb shih tzu if he went too near the fence. One day one of 'em jumped the fence and had me backed up to the garage while I screamed both at my husband to get a shotgun and at my neighbor to come and get his F’n dog. This guy came over and put a sack over the dogs head and a rope around his neck and beat him and held him down until 2 more of his friends could come and help drag him back home while my husband stood there ready to shoot the dog if he lunged at me. Then the guy called the cops on us “for having a dangerous weapon in town”, like these dogs weren’t dangerous. When cops came I was told they couldn’t do anything unless the dog actually attacked someone. I think he finally did bite his owner who moved shortly after that.

. neighbors who fought constantly, wife always had multiple black eyes, and the guy set his kid on fire!!!

. one neighbor who set BBQ grill up about 1 foot away from our back door, pissed on the side of our house, and played his music, loudly till about 2 or 3 am every night and kept a dog tied up on a 8 foot piece of rope right next to our back door.

. neighbors who had 2 great danes in front yard that was filled in with pea gravel to cover up the dog shit. When the picket fence wasn’t tall enough to keep the dogs in, he made it taller using plywood and OBS just tacked up the the top of the fence and propped up with 10 foot long 2x4’s.

Now we live on a 10 acre farm, and we can’t even see our closest neighbor’s house in the summer.

Forgive me for hijacking, but I’m having fiddiculties following the chain of events here. How did your getting the info lead into them moving out after a few months?

The local police don’t like a speakeasy. The state police were informed my the local police. I left out that minor detail. I and one seargent at the police station know how the police found out. I’m sorry about that detail, I was working and posting at the same time.

Damn work!

this morning i found a note on my door from my neighbor. she was complaining that i slam my door too hard when i leave or come home and could i ‘pull it shut’ instead before 10am and after 10pm. i should just clip a note on her door with a link to this thread.