Make Me Feel Better, with Horrible Neighbor Tales

I hate my downstairs neighbors. Miserable white-trash hillbillies. It’s a four-family house and THREE of us are great neighbors—friendly, helpful, but not intrusive. THEN the landlord lets out the downstairs back to a “friend” of his, some damn woman with a baby and a (married) boyfriend. They sit out there in their underwear (NOT a sight you want to bear), smokin’, cussin’ and braying in voices that sound like a kazoo blown through steel wool.

They barbecue, so the greasy smoke rises up and fills my apartment (I have nicely asked them to move the barbecue, to no avail). They have his kids, her nieces and nephews over. They have screaming fights, but never actually KILL each other, dammit. Oh, and they have two attack dogs (a pill bull and a Rottweiler). The only thing I can say in their favor is thank goodness they don’t blare loud music.

All this having been said, I realize these folks are Ozzie and Harriet compared to neighbors some of you put up with. Any horror stories to make me feel better? Or shall I just go ahead and empty my cats’ litter box over their empty potato-heads?

I’ve got a story, but I still think that the cat litter tactic is quite nice. My upstairs neighbor at one time, henceforth dubbed the maggot lady, was rather loud. Her biker boyfriend would visit and they would get into a rather physically and verbally abusive fight. This happened three to five times per week. Pots, pans and other miscellaneous appliances would be thrown into walls. When the last human body had finished hitting a wall, the body would slam repeatedly against the headboard. Yes, the joys of make-up sex would ensue with the delights of screams ad nauseum.

Bear in mind this woman is referred to as the maggot lady because of her appearance. The thought of her engaged in a carnal act is far more than repulsive. In an effort to block out the din, I would elevate the volume of music emanting from my apartment. After completing her debauched acts, she would come downstairs and bang on my door until I responded. At this point she would scream at me and attempt to power her way into my domicile to no avail. Those were the twelve fondest months of my life.

Well, we’re doing a little joy dance around my place because our neighbors, Loretta Loud and her 40-something boy Bucky are packing up to move. They aren’t horrible people or anything, but she’s a little deaf. This wouldn’t be a problem except that they NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE. (Except to run down to the corner for beer and lottery tickets.) They both bray at each other all day in identical nasal voices (so they can be heard over Bucky’s eternal Star Trek videos). Bucky also keeps the plants by the front door nicely. Unfortunately he likes to do it shirtless, displaying the physique he has built from many months of beer and Star Trek videos.

Oh well, I’m sure I’m a treat, too, picking up the milk and papers from the front porch in my old maternity shorts (the “baby” is 14 months old). Anyway, they’re gone in a week or two and we’re rooting for some quiet new neighbors. Maybe a couple of Amish girls.

Maybe it’s just me. But I have this neighbor I’ll call Ms Tacky. We have a washroom in the building, with washers And dryers I should mentiom. Anyway periodically she washes clothes and leaves them hanging over railings from the upstairs balcony. And I don’t mean sheets, I mean anything undies included.

I started wondering if maybe she was on a fixed income so i started leaving quaters in the washroom on the days I noticed her washing. Evidenced by the trail of laudry going down the stairs. (No baskets either I suspose). She doesn’t take them (the quarters). I haven’t even figured out a way to approach her. I just try to entertain at nights.

BTW, Ill happily take suggestions.

One of my apartments in college was underneath a Korean family of 10 or so. After a couple months, the ceiling in the bathroom started leaking. I called maintenance and the guy investigated the problem and then told me that the korean family’s bathtub was full of clams. It made me wonder how they were bathing.

I’ll make you feel better, but it will be a long story.

About six years ago, Mrs. pld and I were living in Ohio City, a section on the near West Side of Cleveland which contains some . . . er, gentrified areas and some not-so-gentrified. Guess which section we lived in?

Our was a two-family home, which also had an attic apartment. We lived on the bottom, and the attic was occupied by a single guy. He was OK, for the most part. There was a young couple and their baby living on the second floor. They moved out, however, and shortly thereafter, he moved in.

He(let’s all him Andy), I found out much later, was some sort of second cousin by marriage or something to our landlord. He and his girlfriend moved in, and at first, we had no problems with them.

I have to interject here to explain the garage situation. The garage was behind the house. There were two garage spaces, each with it’s own door, and a third outdoor space next to them. The outdoor space belonged to Attic Guy. The garage next to it was the neighbor’s; the rightmost garage was mine. At the time Andy moved in, we did not own a car, and were storing a few things in the (locked) garage. Keep all this in mind.

That winter, we often slept in the living room, on the futon, because the place had old-fashioned steam radiators, and the master bedroom was just freezing at night. A few times, we had noticed loud music, but in the interest of being neighborly, we didn’t say anything. One night, he had the stereo blasting, and I couldn’t sleep. So, I called him and asked him to turn it down. He starts giving me shit right away over the phone, and tells me he doesn’t have it very loud. I tell him it’s pretty goddamned loud in my living room. He invites me to come upstairs and hear it, so I do. It’s blasting. I tell him so, and invite him to come into my living room. He comes down, and of course thinks it isn’t very loud. I tell him it’s loud enough to keep me from sleeping. He tells me in no uncertain terms he’s not turning it down. I call my landlord and let him know this.

From here, it starts. The music. The parties. Long, loud parties starting Friday night and going to about 4:00 a.m. Saturday. Music I can hear coming out of the upper floor of my house from more than a block away. Top-of-the-lungs screaming fights between Andy and his girlfriend, day and night. And this old house carries sound like you wouldn’t believe. I complain to the landlord several times, but nothing happens. I’m not calling the police in this neighborhood, because I’ll never see them.

Then, one day, we bought a car. We come home, and go to park it in what we think is our empty garage. I go to raise the door, which, to my surprise, is not locked. Huh. The door goes up . . .

. . . and the garage is full. Full of Andy’s roofing and landscaping supplies. Lumber. Shingles. Tiles. Bags of concrete. Taking up all the floor space in my goddamned garage.

I do what any red-blooded American boy would do–I say to myself, “Fuck this,” and I start hauling it all out of there. Along comes Bob, the Attic Guy, and asks me what I’m doing. I tell him, and he says, “Oh, Andy said he made a deal with you to rent your garage.” News to me, I tell him. He asks me if I’ve noticed that Andy is kind of a hothead. Well, duh. He tells me not to worry for now, he’ll talk to Andy’s girlfriend and tell her to tell him he needs to get his stuff out of there. He helps me take the stuff and put it back, for now. I park parallel to my garage door, with the back of my car against the little wall separating our property from the next door neighboor’s.

Flash to about 3:00 a.m. We’re asleep, and there’s a furious knocking at the door. I mean, it sounds like the thing is about to come off the hinges. I open it, and Andy breaks the lock on my screen door, grabs me by the shirt, and says, “You better quit fucking with me or I’m gonna fucking kill you! Get out there and move your fucking car, now! I can’t get in my fucking garage!”

I tell Leigh-Anne, “Call Neil (our landlord), then when I tell you, call the cops.” Andy is drunker than I have ever seen him. I grab a large kitchen knife (the only time I wished I owned a firearm), stick it in my jacket, and walk out back. I look, and approximately 2 inches of my bumper are protruding into the vicinity of his garage door. Oh, Mabel, this is just great.

He starts ranting and raving about me blocking his garage, then points down and says, “What the fuck is this? Huh?” There is some concrete mix spilled there. I tell him, “That’s from where I was moving your shit out of my garage, until Bob convinced me not to. And what’s this bullshit about a rental agreement?” The motherfucker shoves me, hard, in the chest, and says, “What the fuck? What are you doing messing with my stuff??” Keep in mind I’m about 5’9", 175 lbs., and he’s about 6’3" abou 215, all muscle. I’m not about to go mano a mano with this guy. So I tell him, “Number one, you lay your fucking hands on me again, and one of us is going to fucking jail. Number two, if my garage wasn’t full of your shit, I could’ve parked in it.” He apologizes, and starts to hand me money, saying, “How much do you want? I’m sorry. What do you want, $50, $100? I’m sorry man, I’m having a hard time with my business and my girlfriend. Shit.”

About this time, our landlord show up. I tell him, “I want this shit out of my garage tonight, and if you do not start eviction proceedings against this asshole, I’m filing charges.” So the landlord stays there until 5:00 a.m., making sure my garage is emptied.

He started an eviction proceeding, but the guy decided to squat and fight it. His girlfriend moved out, and things got worse–constant music, constant parties, constant yelling, threats, etc. One night I called our landlord, “This asshole is standing up in his kitchen shouting threats at us. We are going to a hotel, and you are paying for it.” He came over and talked to him, then came down to our place. I told him, “That’s it, we are finding a new place, we are breaking our lease, and you are not going to charge us one goddamned cent in penalties.” And we did.

At the last apartment I had on my own before moving in with my wife (then fiancee), I had an upstairs neighbor who had a propensity for getting drunk, climbing into the bathtub with the water running, and falling asleep, resulting in a flood that ran down into my apartment. This happened three times in the course of about four years. On one occasion, this schmuck was so far gone and the hour so late that it took me well over an hour to contact the building management and get someone to open his apartment and turn off the water.

Ultimately, this worked to my advantage, however. The paths the water took from upstairs down into my apartment were well established by the second time, and so I’d been able to ensure that nothing that could be damaged by water was in a sensitive location, and that the floor was reasonably free of anything important. This was a crucial factor in my having lost no books (aside from a handful that I was actively using) when a fire occurred in another apartment upstairs. Lots of water damage to the apartment and some of my furniture, but most of my clothes were already living with my fiancee, and the books were stored where the water didn’t usually come down, so I came out OK.

A little tale.

2 years ago we had a near record snowfall of 20+". On one side of our house we have a walkway to the backyard. There is approximately 6 feet, and then the neighbor’s driveway. I spent most of the day shoveling the drive and all of our walks. When I came back from taking the kids sledding, Mrs. D. told this tale.

She heard the neighbor shoveling his driveway, and upon looking out, saw that he was tossing the snow from his driveway onto our already shovelled walk. Mrs. D. went out to ask that he pile it between his drive and our walk, and his considerate response was, “Shut up and go away.” When Mrs. D. tried to get through to him again, he repeated his response. He also called her “a fucking moron”, and other niceties. Need I point out that the guy stands well over 6" and was holding a shovel at the time he was expressing these pleasantries to my bride?

Mrs. D. said they needed to talk about this, and if he would not talk about it and continiuued calling her names, she would have to call the cops. His studied response? “You’d better start dialing.”

Mrs. D. attempted to call the jerk’s wife, but there was no answer. So she called the cops. Guess what the cop’s response was? “Quit throwing your snow on their walk.”

So I get home and hear this tale. Figure I have to do the Ward Cleaver thing and confront the asshole. Knock knock. Jerk answers. I say, “___, we need to talk about this.” Jerk says, “No we don’t. In fact we never have to talk to each other.”

Mrs. Jerk comes to the door and I say, “How would you feel if I called your wife a fucking moron?” Jerk says, “You never would have reason to, because my wife isn’t a moron. Maybe I shouldn’t have used the word fucking, but your wife is a moron, and I feel sorry for you for having married her. You guys are the joke of the neighborhood.” (And I didn’t even know the official neighborhood designation had been made yet!) With a couple of more pleasantries he shut the door in my face.

Next Jan. it will have been 3 years since we have spoken to each other or even acknowledged each other’s presence. Makes living next door to each other so pleasant. Especially when we both have kids of similar ages attending the same school, etc.

I am quite pleased with myself that I kept my cool so well. He is number one on the list of folks whose asses I would love to have kicked. At times I dream that he would have taken a swing at me…

Wow, bad stories on here. I feel for y’all.

Makes me feel lucky that the worst that’s been going on with me and my wife at present include the following…

(a) We have two cars, an SUV and a Volvo sedan. We use the SUV primarily, and occasionally leave the Volvo parked at the sidewalk instead of up in the driveway. A couple of weeks ago, we discovered a police notification on the windshield; apparently some neighbor had complained to the city that the Volvo had been parked there on the street for five days straight. Like people don’t have better things to do?

(b) Whenever our landlord visits, our neighbor on the left-hand side likes to come over and tell him what terrible neighbors and tenants we are. She’s never spoken to us or asked us anything directly.

© Our neighbors on the right-hand side think it’s vaguely amusing when their large dog gets loose and chases our small cat through our own yard. They also park in front of the fire hydrant.

But man, this is small potatoes compared to some of the stuff people have mentioned…

Aw, man, you let yourself be intimidated by a guy who’s only six inches tall! I’m embarrassed FOR you!

–Tim

I have two tales … they pale in comparision to some of this shit but I will add them nonetheless.

First:

While living in North Vancouver, we rented in a nice condo complex (we being my then girlfriend (now wife) and a female friend of hers) from a woman who owned there (all the units were owned but many were rented out). We had been living there quite happily (and quietly as none of us are the party type … more the quite evening with a book type) when we start hearing all sorts of nasty thumping coming from upstairs. Almost rythmic and very irritating. It started at about 10PM and continued all through the night. As I am a peaceable guy, I did not complain during the night. However, the next day, I went up to the upstairs neighbour’s apartment to see what was up. No one home. So I leave a nice note, mentioning the noise and saying that it made it hard to sleep. The next day, my roommate (not girlfriend) is greated by the woman upstairs who spends a few minutes yelling at her about how dare we complain to her … and don’t we know that we are just renters and should shut the fuck up … and so on. However, through all of this, we found out that the thumping was from a mentally / physically retarted girl who was now spending the next 6 months living upstairs. She only slept in the day and spent her nights crawling around their apartment thumping on the floor. The landlord was no help, no was the lady we rented the place from. We moved.

Second … now in Powell River. My now fiance and I move into this nice almost brand new (3 months old) apartment complex. Below us lives no one and above us lives a early to mid 30’s couple with two very nice kids with whom we became instant friends. This complex appeals to young families and professionals so was quite a nice place. For about a year … then the landlord decides he is going to take measures to rent out this place below us. He rents is cheap to this young lady (20 - 21 ?) who has two little kids (one is about 2 … one is about 4). She just broke up with her abusive boyfriend and is trying to get her life back on track. Alarm bells go off for me but I don’t say anything, thinking that everyone needs a chance. Well, guess what? … about 2 months later, boyfriend moves in. Turns out he is a local drug dealer and fence and a brainless idiot. Big guy (maybe 6’1, 200 lbs but muscled) but also a crazy psycho. Starts dealing drugs out of the place below us … cops know, and will not do anything (found out later that they leave him alone because he is so stupid that they can usually bust all the people above him and below him so quick as a result of his stupidity that they do want him to go away … he is a good source of leads). Every now and then (read once per week), he and the girlfriend have a huge screaming fight and I can hear things smashing and breaking down below … this broken stuff is usually thrown out on the lawn where it sits for days (hard to run a home based business in that environment). Also, he likes to sit on his outside porch and hack and cough while he smokes (usually pot) … not just simple coughs but nasty flemmy putrid coughs … I still get ill when I think of them. After a couple of months there, he threatened the guy upstairs that if he didn’t smarten up a bit, his kids might have an accident or two (the people upstairs are the nicest people on the face of the earth). Cops again said there is nothing they can do. People upstairs move. Finally, after many calls to police and the landlord, they move out (but not before looser boy throws everything, and I do mean everything, that they own out onto the lawn where it sits for a week or so). I saw the place downstairs when we first moved in and then after they had lived there for 6 months. I swear if I did not know better I would not believe it was the same place. They had to repaint the entire apartment, replace several doors, and replace all the linoleum and all the carpetting.

There’ve been a few real winners in my building over the last few years.
[ul]
[li]About fifteen years ago a guy would try to burn down the building every now and then by throwing flammable materials down the incinerator.[/li]
[li]A woman upstairs from us would have screaming fights on the phone with her mom (it was probably a dial tone she was yelling at, for all I know) and then play Billy Joel’s “My Life” over, and over, and over again all through the night. One day she was found sitting on the ledge of the sixth floor and my mom had to call the police, who talked her down and then carted her off, probably to an asylum.[/li]
[li]In the apartment next door to us once lived an old woman and her son, and man, were they nuts. The woman would scream violent obscenities at random people in the hall and the street (they particularly hated my parents for some reason; they were “the whore and the pimp”, all in front of me at three years old). The man would sit in the street staring straight ahead in a heavy fur coat in the middle of summer. They also never paid their rent, ever. Finally, they were evicted by the Sherriff’s department, and the super told us that inside the apartment was nothing but old broken TVs and mirrors spraypainted black. Nice, huh? I believe they were also taken away.[/li]
[li]Now inhabiting that very apartment are a young couple who do nothing but smoke pot all day and throw things at each other.[/li][/ul]
It’s actually a very nice building.

Two houses down was the Deliverance House. A family (more or less) lived there, but nobody on the street knew who was in charge, whether anyone was married or what.

They had dogs in the back yard that would kill any cats that came on the property, and the cats would be left to rot. They kept the garbage right by our neighbor’s house, and this was where the cats ended up after they had been left in the yard long enough.

I had to call the cops on them several times for domestic disturbances, once after a teenage girl who lived there yelled that “he was coming to get me again!”, right before her brother (or cousin or whatever, but he was at the house sometimes) came down the street. All this was in addition to the noise complaints.

At one point, the nine year old boy tried to make spare money by cutting lawns. He had a completely worn out gas trimmer, and asked me if I could help him get it running. At some point in this, I was holding a can of “One Lube” lubricant. He asked what it was. I showed him the can and he said that he couldn’t read. That was the worst part for me, that an nine year old kid couldn’t read the words “one” and “lube”. I didn’t call Child Protective Services; I wonder if I should have.

It finally got bad enough that one neighbor started dating their landlord. Two weeks later, they were out. In a boom economy, the house sat vacant for three weeks while they threw out junk and fixed/cleaned the place.

If we are talking pure trash, way back when, when Ms. D and I were living in sin, we lived across the street from a household similar to the ones many of you have described. I would estimate they had at least six motor vehicles without a functioning muffler between them. We figured the most economic resolution would be for us to buy them all mufflers.

The fondest memory was when one of the women apparently locked out one of the men. We were awakened at 2:30 a.m. by his shouts from the street, including the memorable, “All you know how to do is suck cock and you aren’t even any good at that!” In what I imagine was their version of a property settlement, he kept bellowing, “Give me my new Levis.”

In some ways I find such blatant trash less disturbing than the ostensibly upstanding member of the community I currently live next to.

Gosh, thanks, all!

I feel like going downstairs amd hugging the neighbors—except they look so STICKY . . .

Our neighbour doesn’t bother us too much, but we do hear many a shout and incantations from him.

Try these on for size…
HOW CAN YOU LOVE GOD IF YOU DON’T LOVE YOUR DADDY?

Followed by the noise of him beating his 3 young children…the oldest is about 9-10

We often see him standing in front of his TV, with his arms stretched out, above his head, in apparent awe of his benevolent god.

The list of repulsive behavior, in the name of god, is extensive.

This guy doesn’t work very hard. His church “donated” 8 acres, out in the country, to him and his god fearing brood.

They moved out this past weekend. Thank god almighty.

Uh, these stories are pretty awful. I was all excited to post my bad neighbor stories but I don’t think they’re on quite the same level. I’ll just do a synopsis.

My favorite bad neighbors were the family who lived across the street from us when I was a kid. They had dirty stuffed animals in all their front windows, 2 vicious dogs, and a multitude of kids who were the neighborhood bullies. The mother was a huge, mean woman with a lisp. She would sit on her front steps all day and scream at her kids, her husband, whoever: “You Aaath-hole!!” We moved.

The people who live across from my parent’s house now have the foulest mouths I have ever heard. I love hearing “Get in the fuckin’ house!!” followed by “Fuck you, Ma!” from the 5 year old. Their millions of kids are always running around naked in the busy street and playing on the junked furniture in front of the house. The cops are there constantly, breaking up domestic disputes or telling them to turn down the heavy metal that they BLARE out of speakers turned towards the windows.

Unfortunately pldennison has us all beat with Andy the drunk psycho man. Unfortunately for pld, I mean. Where do these people come from? An alternate universe?

Well, most of you posted stuff that is going to make my complaints look piddling, but in the name of cheering Eve up, I’ll contribute anyway.

My first apt. after college was the basement of a house. The upstairs was rented to a young family. Our electricity wasn’t separate; the landlord gave them a rent break so they paid for both of ours. I come home one day and I have no power. Turns out they haven’t been paying the bills and the electric company has let it go on so long, the amount owed is in 4 figures. I had to go stay in a hotel (and eventually replace all the stuff in my fridge) while my poor landlord had to pay enough to get the power back on for the innocent tenant. When I got back (luckily I had a business trip so my landlord only had to pay for one night in a hotel) the woman upstairs came down to apologize, bringing me a plate of spaghetti and then telling me they were having money problems and might be getting a divorce. Then started to cry in front of me. Christ, I would have rather skipped the apology if this were a part of it!

Our current two-doors-down neighbor, Keith, is one of these guys who just tries real hard and doesn’t get it. My husband is a pretty serious woodworker, but he has precious little time to do it. He does things for our family only, never takes commissions, has NO INTEREST in building things for other people which he makes very clear. But our neighbor Keith keeps bringing him “referrals,” as in, “Say, my coworker Marcia wants to have a dollhouse built, and I told her you could do it. Here is her number, I told her you’d call her to talk about the price.” And he expects us to drop to our knees and thank him for the great business lead. He also likes to give us things, for the same reason, like his old golf bag caddy. My husband plays golf once a year. But now we’re supposed to love our “great neighbor” because he gave us this piece of junk.

When I was growing up, our neighbors–really wonderful people–planned a graduation party for their daughter. It was a pretty wholesome thing, just a great bash with dance music in their carriage house. They took letters to every house in the whole neighborhood a week or so beforehand, inviting us to drop by, and explaining that they knew the music might be a little loud but they hoped everyone would understand it was just a one-time thing, one special night that they wouldn’t repeat the disturbance ever. Anyone who had concerns, please feel free to talk to them about it beforehand. And one of our neighbors, the one with the brattiest, screamingest kids? They called the cops with a noise complaint that night, shutting the party down early.

Lame stories all, in retrospect…

Well, I can even cheer myself up, when I remember the neighbors in my very first apartment. I moved into a cheesy apartment complex in Baltimore while I was in college. My next-door neighbor was very quiet, but turned out he was a drug dealer—which I found out when he was gunned down on my doorstep at 2:00 one morning (he survived, but one of my rear tires was shot out).

My downstairs neighbor was a VERY elderly gentleman named “Otto,” who thought he was Hitler. He told me his real named was Adolph, but “those Jews” made him change it after the war. He kept calling me Eva and inviting me in (I am not making this up). Happily, I could easily outrun him. He kept passing out with the TV turned up to top volume at night, though (my main complaint!).

Now that I think of it, it was the 1970s and he was about 90 . . . Hmmm . . .

the pldennison story should be required reading for anyone with neighbor problems. now my story:
i moved into the top floor of a two story, with a very nice family living below. very sweet, well behaved little girl that would play quietly under the stairs with her tea set and dolls, sweet dachsund with floppy ears that would run out of the house on its leash to greet the neighbors, nice husband, unobtrusive wife.

one evening during my second lease at this place, i hear the dachsund whining out on the porch. i don’t take much notice of it and go about my business. at about 3am, i wake up to the dog’s continuing whine. the dog is still whining when i get up in the morning to go out. i realize that the dog has been left alone while the family is away.

this happens again on a number of occasions. i buy earplugs, but find them difficult to sleep with. i also realize that i haven’t seen any of the family in months, except for the wife. apparently, the husband and daughter moved out a while back and the wife is going out every night, leaving the dog tied up outside.

this goes on and on. i am getting very little sleep at this point. i complain to management but of course they do nothing. i asked the woman if she could keep her dog quiet or keep him inside and she flat out tells me no. i feel bad for the dog because when the whole family lived there he was very quiet and well behaved. i begin to foster a real dislike for this woman.

the next time the dog wakes me up, i get out of bed at 2am-ish and go downstairs to walk the dog. i figured it was lonely or something. i walk the dog around the apartment grounds for about 15 minutes then return him to his porch and go back to sleep. the whining starts almost right away. this time i go down and open the gate and go back to bed, hoping the dog would just run away. this time the whining stopped for over an hour. i actually started to feel guilty about letting the dog go, but sure enough the whining starts again. at some point i had even brought the dog up to my place to keep him company but this only made him very agitated and i kept thinking he was going to crap all over the place. so now i’m completely at my wit’s end and it’s between 3:30 and 4am. my plan now is to shove the dog in his little igloo doghouse and turn it so the entrance is against the wall, at least muffling his whines. keep in mind, i do like animals but i had crossed over into a patch of insanity. i go downstairs and a wrestling match ensues. that dog was just a pack of muscle and he did not want to get in the doghouse. there i am, at 4 in the morning in my boxers, my arms wrapped around this dachsund, trying to push him in the little opening while he’s got his stubby legs locked on the sides pushing out. finally, after several minutes of various holds, reversals, dog kicks, and sheer physical exertion on both our parts, we slump into our neutral corners, panting.

that was my final effort. i gave up and moved out at the end of my lease.