Seeing as how I’ve never watched a male stripper, I do not know the answer to this question, so I’ll put it bluntly.
Do male strippers generally strip with an erection? If not, why would someone pay to see a shrivled up little dink just hangin’ around, doin nothin in particular? I mean, I have one, and it’s not really somethin to look at.
–Tim
I’ve never seen a male stripper, but I don’t think most of them even take off their underwear.
Women aren’t nearly as visually stimulated as men. I think that for us it’s probably more of a social thing.
Yeah, I mean (sorry for the hijack) maybe it’s just me and an underdeveloped sex drive, but I just don’t find men’s anatomies all that attractive. shrugs
I danced at the ‘La Bare’ in Dallas for a while. We were not allowed to ‘show the stuff’. But I was hired for a lot of private parties and went all the way. Never got hard, no one seemed to mind. Girls are different. Made lot o’ cash, had lots of fun! Mostly bachlorette parties.
BTW at the time I worked there most of the guys were gay. They wouldn’t have gotten hard anyway.
My wife had the opportunity to go to the Coronet Club in Atlanta (Buckhead). These are the facts that I have determined to be true
darkcool, I would appreciate it if you could confirm or deny. (BTW, I used to live in Dallas, do you still live there?)
*bant verb A word that Enright3 and his buddies have always used to describe the action of striking someone in the face with their penis. 
syn chili whip
As something of a strip club hound my self I was much amused to watch my first male strip show recently.
I was genuinly surprised at proceedings. The club is primarily a girly place but some of the folks at a nearby “parlour” were having a party and decided that Andre had to perform.
Good lord the man was talented. He put on this whole spaceship captain routine and generally everyone in the crowd got into it and good giggles were had by all.
From my privileged position I did notice that Andre while appearing to be well endowned did not have a stiffy. He removed all his clothes but with stratigic use of a pole and a few accoutriments you could never really get a good look at his unmentionables.
The attraction of a male stripper (and Im guessing here) is not in the titalation of seeing everything. Rather it is how well they can promote the idea of what they might be capable of doing.Andre can also be found here for anyone interested [link removed by TubaDiva. We do not allow links to adult sites. Do NOT do this again].
And yeah I tipped the guy
[Edited by TubaDiva on 09-15-2000 at 04:43 PM]
don’t forget ‘teabagging’. I saw it in a flick. It’s when the guy stands over someone & dips his balls down on their face.
How HARD (no pun intended) is it to get into this line of work? I am interested in a job where I can make a decent living, and perhaps cheat the tax man abit. What are typical starting salaries gor stripper? is the work staedy?
What are the job’s qualifications?
And, can you retire wealthy from it?
All the male strippers I’ve seen, except for the ones that travelled in from the States, took it ALL off. And yes, they were semi-hard. I didn’t bother interviewing them afterwards to see what they did before they went on to get that way, although I imagine some manual stimulation may have been required.
I do NOT find a strange, sweaty man dancing around with his penis waving around attractive. Why I let my friends talk me into going into these places…
Places???
Damhna,
I don’t think you should have posted that link. There are a number of minors that post frequently on the SDMB. I know that they probably shouldn’t be reading a thread about Male Strippers anyway, but it really isn’t appropriate to be providing click-through access to pornography.
It really depends on where you go. The strip joints for gay men tend to be all about hardons: there’s a club in NYC that even has, um, target shooting contests, if you know what I mean and I think you do.
The joints for women tend to be a bit more decorous.
Enright3,
You are correct on all 4 counts. Regarding 3, you gotta remember the bachlorette is usually wasted. When it comes to getting the betrothed blotto, women are not that different than men. They can be down-right ruthless. At one party, the girls were drinking boiler-makers. Well, sort of. The ‘friends’ were drinking beer and water, the bride-to-be (unbeknown to her) was drinking beer and Everclear!
At private parties, there is a lot going on for the dancer. It’s usually a surprise, so you have to be snuck in, you have to co-ordinate the music and so on. It’s not exactly like having a harum. So you usually do have to give yourself a semi before going on.
No, I live in Ca. now. I usually go back for the holidays, though. I lived in ‘The Village’ off of Greenville.
egkelly, when I went down to the ‘La Bare’ they watched me dance and said, " Your hired". Easy. The leap to private parties or male prostitution (which I never did but got PLENTY of offers) is even easier.
HIJACK
darkcool-
Male prostitution? Is that possible? Think about it, most men would do it for free so if he takes a little money thats just a minor detail. But a prostitute? His friends would call him a poon hound.
Well when I was training with work in Quebec we spent a good bit of time in the local strip joint in Granby . There where a few male stripper there .
We paid for 1 to lap dance a girl that was with us . I can tell you that although he didn’t have a hard-on it was by no means shrivled or little :eek:
CLedet,
are you serious? If a woman wants it done right, she’d hire a pro. You know what you’re getting, plus there’s little chance of committment.
Enright3
sdimbert
Aknowledged. My bad.
Didn’t actually look at the site before I posted it. It was a while since I was at the page and I forgot that the content might not be the most appropriate.
You may all commence with the rotten fruit now.
I went to a birthday party for a woman about 50 & a male stripper came in [this was a surprise no one knew about]. A few of the women went to the bathroom, they were so embarrassed. Some of them laughed & one of them played with him although nothing dirty.
Um, no, they’d call him something else entirely; it’s gay prostitution. All the jokes and SNL skits aside, there’s very little outcall for heterosexual male-to-female, it’s a rare woman that pays for an escort.
your humble TubaDiva
True Tuba, my point exactly. It’s a rare hetero male that would have to be paid. Now would he like to get the goods and be paid? Oh yes he would. Well only if my wife would let me.