Marriage question: Is she obligated to stay?

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@torie

I think that when the Mr. and Mrs. Hypothetical chose to bring a child into the world, they agreed to intertwine their destinies regardless of how they would feel about each other in the future. Mr. Hypothetical isn’t being used, he’s simply investing in the secure economic future of his child, which is in both their best interests, regardless of the status of the relationship.

If it’s happening without his knowing exactly how things stand, he most certainly is being used.