i never said he saved her, i said he “may” be able to save her. Some arguments were asking why you would put Neo in a situation where he wouldnt choose to patch the source; my point was that he wasn’t given the choice to save Trinity vs save the Matrix…it was to re-enter the Matrix (for potentially any reason) vs patch the source
other random thoughts–what if Merovingian had the same option, resetting the Matrix vs saving persephone, and chose the Matrix over love, and her life was recreated as a program for him in the newer matrices? Also, traditional vampires lust for blood after having being reborn into a physical body…would a “cyber” vampire lust for emotions after being reborn into a virtual body? If so, that would indicate the Persephone (and probably Mero.) were once real people.
And…I don’t think the architect can fool Neo about the doors…you have to realize that Neo is not physically walking through a door, the doors are just representations of his choices. Once he makes the choice, walking through the door is like hitting “enter” on your computer, it confirms that he wants to follow through with the choice he has made known to the Matrix system.
Or imagine it this way–Gateway, your computer maker(the architect) has detected a fatal flaw in it’s bios on your model of computer. Your computer will continue to deteriorate and run poorly, until the entire system fails irrepairably. Gateway cannot find the problem, but hires an outside programmer to fix it (the mother of the Matrix). Gateway takes this code, and puts it on a floppy with the code to fix this(Neo). Gateway mails the floppy to you. You now must choose to patch your bios, of which one effect will be that you must reformat and lose all of your data, or leave your computer like it is, knowing that it will degrade and eventually you will lose your data anyway. The architect can no more control the end decision than Gateway can.
The agents fight to stop Neo from reaching the source because that is what they are programmed to do. Simply put, their programmed instructions are “delete any program who becomes self aware and protect the source code from patching”. Obviously you would not want the wrong program to reach the source code. You could make the case that the programmer of the Agents left them weaker than The One on purpose, to allow him, and only him, to reach the Source.
I think the spoon is significant because it was hand made and crude. He is showing Neo that Zion is in fact real, because if it was another level of the Matrix, the spoon would be perfectly machine formed. If the spoon was to show Neo that Zion was another Matrix level, why would the child, who was obviously not The One, have an insight unavailable to Neo?