Since all this sadness, I’ve been doing a little personal assessment. Although I read MPSIMS and ICU just about every day or two, I’m just an occasional poster. I’ve been involved in a few flame wars, but they left me feeling very unhappy with myself, so I try to avoid the flame threads. The Great Debates take too much time for me to really get very involved. General Questions are interesting, so I read that sometimes, but I mostly stick to MPSIMS and ICU.
I’ve made a few good posts, but very few, and rarely have they sparked any onslaught of insight, witticisms, or even provoked much thought. I think Wally said something nice to me once or twice, but I can’t remember when or where. I was going to ask him for a sig line, but I never got around to it, and now it’s too late.
Often, I’ve wanted to share something personal, have done it once or twice, but I usually stop myself. I’m not a big contributor, so I know I’m fairly irrelevant. Forgive me if it sounds otherwise, but I’m not asking for any obligatory “BUT I LIKE YOU” posts. It just the fact, so I’m not asking for that kind of attention.
My point is this: I spend a fair amount of time perusing this board, watching TV, talking about pointless things on the phone, all the while, I’m neglecting something in real life. I realize that if I died tonight, my friends would find someone else to gossip with, NBC, ABC, and CBS wouldn’t even notice, and my living & dying wouldn’t even be a blip on your life. Because I spend work time reading the web, my friends and coworkers think I’m a slacker. My epitaph from them would be, “she could have done better.” My kids and my husband would say, “I wish we had more time with her”.
Everything I do I do halfway because it’s at the expense of something else I could be doing. Therefore, I’m a mediocre mommy, wife, worker, friend, poster, etc., blah, blah, blah.
Damn.
Why do anything if you can’t really do it well enough to be noticed and remembered for it?
I don’t really have a point to all this. Just throwing it out there to the universe.
-Katy