Look Scummy, I get it: I’d be mad too if my wife left me to vacation and eat at nice restaurants on my dime with a guy who has a better job and bigger dick than me. So don’t worry, I’m not holding your negative nancy world view against you; after all, you can’t help it.
That said: what people here are very clearly saying is that it doesn’t matter why Oksana got with Mel, because there isn’t a goddamned thing that woman could have done to deserve getting her teeth knocked out while holding her infant daughter. Period. She could have literally cracked his giant Armageddon safe and squandered millions on Fabergé eggs she used as targets at the shooting range. It doesn’t matter. She could have blown all of his friends, but not him, before the hot tub. It doesn’t matter. Get it? Nothing a human being can do to another justifies what Gibson admits on tape to doing. There is never a time it is ok to knock someone’s teeth out, particularly when they are clearly defenseless and holding your child.
If you ex knocked your teeth out, I wouldn’t sit here and say “Oh, leave her be! Can’t you guys just understand that Scummy’s tiny penis left her with no pleasure in life! He has a huge hand in this by not taking some Extenz! He forced her hand!” Same thing here. Your bitching and moaning about having to provide care for your child is a different issue.
By the way, you’re more than welcome to post your picture so we can all realize what type of grade A beef cake we’re dealing with, stud.
As the recipient of both similar abuse, and child support, I can categorically state that I would gladly forgo the money if it meant we no longer had to deal with him. John Hancock would be humbled by the enormous joyful scrawl with which I’d sign that document!
Just as an FYI, your myspace comes up on the first page of google results when typing your sdmb user name (fwiw, I spent an entire… 5 seconds doing that so it’s not like you were hard to find).
You probably shouldn’t be casting any stones about someone’s appearance. I mean, I guess some people dig the middle-aged, balding, aspires-to-middle-management cube drone stud look, but it’s a niche. On the plus side, your “loinspawn” (to borrow your phrase) is seriously adorable.
I think Pinky did acknowledge some pages back that the post was a mistake. Classy to admit a mistake, even when the mistake is classless. I assume she realizes the husband made the initial mistake.
In related thread news, why do people bother with the “I saw your pic and you aren’t so hot, derrrr durrrp…” Shut the fuck up, geez. Who cares about one person’s opinion in something as relative as finding someone else attractive, particularly when that person has been given tons of compliments already. It’s just all pointless. Shut up. (not just Scumpup, but everyone who does this. Holy crap it is a dumb go-to. Stop)
I’ll admit, I do like the name Chunky-styles and may usurp it for myself.
Why don’t you go fuck off to that cunt bitch, zweisamkeit? She WAS fucking making eyes at me. She’d have sucked me in five seconds!!! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
This must only apply to separated couples. Since my wife and I are still married, our only legal obligation is to provide food, clothing, medical expenses (insert something other basic that I’m missing). It doesn’t matter if I make a billion dollars a year, as long as I keep the bare minimum essentials for my child, then that’s all the law cares about.
But, if we separate, then I am required to expend a percentage of my income. Why are separated/divorced couples required to spend so much more for the care of their child than married couples?
And it gets better. Once Mel Gibson (as an example) pays that 30 grand a month to his ex-girlfriend, there is no legal requirement that SHE use the money to care for the child. She could provide the bare minimum for the child and use the rest to party on weekends while she hires a nanny to watch the kid. Are you suggesting that this money goes to the child somehow? Why doesn’t the law demand an accounting of this support to ensure that it goes to the child?
The reason is that because you know as well as I do that the formulas are bullshit. Sure, if I make $30,000/yr then it is reasonable to say that X percent of my income goes to the child. If I make 30 million per year, then that same percentage certainly doesn’t go to the child. Are we buying gold-plated playpens? You can’t possibly spend 30 grand a month on a newborn. It has to go to the woman.
Now, you may agree with that, but at least admit that it is back door alimony.
Genuine curiousity since you’ve said it a number of times: relevant to what, exactly? Anything at all? Her entire existence and everything that anyone could possible think or say or speculate about her must be reduced to seeing and referencing her as 100% victim 100% of the time? Mel Gibson, 100% abuser? Or are you saying that absolutely nothing whatsoever is ever relevant to discuss about either of these two people in relationship to each other? It’s not “relevant” to reference their having had a child together, for instance?
My point being, you’ve made that “nothing else is relevant” remark as though it’s just not possible for anyone, ever, to think or say anything at all about Oksana thatmight be negative because once a victim/abuser relationship exists between two people, the victim becomes all saint and the abuser becomes all devil, in all contexts, whether it’s about the abusive nature of their relationship or not, and any reference to her which is less than flattering is now off limits because of her elevation to victim-saint, and if you see or say or perceive anything less than flattering about her you are saying she asked for it.
Which is pretty much complete bullshit and entirely your hangup.
To the core. You hurt me to my chunky core. Here, let me hop right on researching your argument for you (the long-standing “I AM RUBBER, YOU ARE GLUE!!!111!!” internet defense).
Still waiting on that lengthy explanation of how even if this bitch is a gold digger, it means she deserves getting punched in the face. Or if you want to go ahead and tell us exactly the amount you deem as appropriate child support, that’d be great. We’ll pass it on to the judge in this case, sugar tits.
We get it: you’re bitter as shit that you got taken for a ride. You never beat the shit out of your ex (at least, I can’t imagine a decent human being doing so), so your experience really isn’t aligned with what we’re discussing.
