In Canada, we occasionally get American media and some Wikipedia editors referring to the spouse of the Prime Minister as Canada’s first lady.
Until it’s pointed out that:
Just because Americans use that term doesn’t mean every other country in the world does;
The spouse of the Prime Minister comes third in protocol, after the spouse of the monarch (currently Queen Camilla) and the spouse of the governor general (currently Mr. Whit Fraser), so the term “first lady” is inaccurate in any case.
No, that is not the spouse of the President, that is the First Lady. Even if traditionally the spouse of the president there is zero requirement for that to be so, and indeed, earlier in this thread I listed a number of “First Ladies” who were NOT the spouse of the President.
I assume the US media messes that up because in the US “First Lady” is often (but not always) “spouse of the head of state”. Which is not so much an excuse as an explanation.
And, with the exception of the then-teenaged Susan Ford briefly filling in for her mother, the U.S. “First Lady” has always also been the president’s wife, for the lifetimes of most of us.
The role of the spouse of the President is recognised by federal statute as fulfilling a governmental function:
On November 2, 1978, President Jimmy Carter signed Public Law 95-570. This codified and clarified the authority for hiring staff for the White House Office and the Executive Residence. It also formally authorized assistance and services to the spouse of the President “in connection with assistance provided by such spouse to the President in the discharge of the President’s duties and responsibilities.” If the President has no spouse, another family member could be designated by the President to receive the assistance and services.
The spouse has office space in the White House, provided at the taxpayers’s expense, to carry out those duties. The spouse also has an extensive staff, to assist in carrying out the spouse’s statutorily recognised function of assisting the President of the United States. The spouse also has a formal name for her group of staffers: the Office of the First Lady.
in 2024, the most recent year available, the spouse of the President had a staff of 24, with salaries of $2,398,819, paid for by the taxpayers.
Those taxpayer funded staff all provide services to the spouse of the President, under her overall direction:
Advisor to the Senior Advisor to the First Lady
Communications Coordinator for the Office of the First Lady
Communications Director for the First Lady
Deputy Associate Policy Director for the Office of the First Lady
Deputy Communications Director for the Office of the First Lady
Deputy Policy Director for the Office of the First Lady
Director of Policy and Projects for the First Lady
Executive Director of Joining Forces for the Office of the First Lady
Press Secretary for the First Lady
Senior Advisor for Joining Forces for the Office of the First Lady
Senior Advisor for Women’s Health for the Office of the First Lady
Senior Advisor on Cancer for the Office of the First Lady
Senior Advisor on Foreign Policy for the Office of the First Lady
Senior Advisor on Workforce Development and Education for the Office of the First Lady
Senior Advisor to the First Lady
Senior Policy Advisor for the Office of the First Lady
Senior Presidential Speechwriter for the First Lady
Special Assistant for Policy and Communications for the Office of the First Lady
Speechwriter for the Office of the First Lady
Staff Assistant for Scheduling and Advance for the Office of the First Lady
Trip Director for the Office of the First Lady
What do you call someone who is recognised by federal law as playing a public role in the executive branch to assist the President of the United States, who has an Office to carry out her functions, who has extensive public office space at the heart of the executive branch, paid for at public expense, who controls a staff of 24, with salaries paid for by the taxpayer, all to assist that individual to carry out the duties recognised by federal statute?