Why pick one? Trim by default, surprise me with a shave every now and again.
Shaved lips, trimmed elswhere.
Not to mention that it would probably ruin the blade after a few strokes.
When it grows on YOUR body-then you can decide what gets done with it.
And quite frankly, the idea of a Brazilian freaks the shit out of me.
Nah. Gives me something to hang onto when the lady starts jumping around too much.
Trimmed. The gag reflex from a hair in the back of my throat=not sexy. Period.
I like to keep things trimmed but I also expect my guy to um, – neaten his area as well!
As for shaving and/or waxing - “Go ahead honey, you first!”
What do people mean, exactly when they say “trimmed?” You mean, like the lawn? Doesn’t that make things a bit bristly? What parts get trimmed? Also, what do you use to do the trimming?
Sorry for the ignorance, but I’m having trouble imagining how I’d go about trimming, if I wanted to do so.
cher3 you know how hair stylists sort of hold the hair they’re cutting between their two fingers, to provide a straight line for cutting I suppose, or maybe just to protect the customer’s head from accidental gouging? Using that rule, anything more than a finger width long gets cut.
I’d just as soon “it” be left natural, though I’m not put off by trimming, shaving, or interesting topiary effects.
I like variety. My SO trims neatly (which I would choose if I had to), but when we (rarely) bring a girlfriend to bed with us, sometimes a full bush does wonders for my uhh… enthusiasm. Likewise for a completely shaved girls.
I vote for shaved…especially if she wears a thong bikini (nothing worse than hairs sticking out)!
Shaved at the lips (mmm… sensitive) and trim the top.
I trim mine as well about once a week. I grow a lot of hair around the base of my penis, so I have to get rid of that… Yum.
It took me a while to get used to the shaved look, but I like it now. Kind of a whatever makes you happy type. If she likes to shave, cool.
As long as I don’t have to…ugh…
Uh, shaving lips? I can only speak from personal experience, but women have hair on their lips? (and I am a woman…).
Other than that I prefer to be natural or trimmed, as shaving there means I get itchy and red. Of course it’d get guys back for stubs…
I have never had a man ask me to shave or anything, but I could of course just be dating shy men (or men who like women who don’t shave there…)
Tikster
I’m not a fan of the all-shaved look. Trimmed, yes; cut short, yes. Edged so it doesn’t stick out of a bikini? Great. Bushy? No, thanks.
FISH
Guys, ahem I would think that if you’re careful, you can avoid the hair gag. The part that should get tongue’s attention doesn’t have hair on it at all. 
Uhm, to pop in here(and to ask the ladies), where can I get a bikini wax (or even a brazillian?)? At my local eyebrow/leg/lip place, or what? I don’t know…
Try your local dermatoligist (sp?). And sedate yourself prior to the appointment!
The things we do for you guys
All these guys who are saying all they care about is access: that’s not the question being asked. To put it in food terms: it is understood that you are very, very hungry, and that if offered a nice chicken dinner you would enjoy it very much no matter how it was prepared. That said, you are being asked if you would PREFER it fried, broiled or baked.
Along the same lines, it seems to me that reasonable people can have different tastes in how hirsute or naked their partner’s genitals are. I don’t see any particular moral superiority attached to any preferences here.
To answer the question myself: I prefer absolutely naked, I like the look of a woman’s pussy and hair only obscures it. Plus, oral sex is easier. (Some women have a very thick growth of hair right above the top of the pubic divide that DOES make oral sex difficult.
Next trimmed, then untrimmed. None of these represents a deal-breaker, they are just preferences.
Trimmed is fine, but I think I prefer the completely untouched bushy look.
But completely shaved? Creepy. Like looking at a prepubescent girl or a chemotherapy patient. No thanks.