Men - Does it bother you that everybody assumes you're a child molester?

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My daughter is 8 years old, tall, blonde, and beautiful. Just a month ago, at her grandma’s house she went outside in her bathing suit to play in a sprinkler in the front yard. I watched through the window as two landscapers Stopped mowing a lawn, got in their truck and drove to just a few doors down to watch my daughter cavorting. This was not let’s-watch-little-kids-at-play-isn’t-this-cute type watching. They were watching her as a sexual object. When I walked outside and towards them, they started the truck and drove past and around the block to start mowing again.

There is a radar that you get if you have children that you love. I don’t beleive in ESP, but I swear it’s true. You just get that sense that innapropriate attention is being focussed on your child, and you look around and you keep looking, and you find the one who is doing it, and you stare at them so that they know that you know..
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I have 20 freaken years as an Investigator and I can tell you your 6th sense is bullshit. Not only because I know what I can tell, and I can’t tell that, but I also know the chances of two random men both being Pedophiles- about 0. Now, of course if your daughter is very well developed for 8, then they might have just been guys ogling- which is harmless. Sure, I wouldn’t blame you for giving the guys “the look” but the chance of two random men both being Pedophiles is vanishingly small. And, not only that- both Pedophiles interested in little girls. :dubious:

I used to be a Scout Leader- but it was hinted to me that as a Single man the 'rents were uncomfortable with me- so I am not a Scout Leader anymore. :frowning: I dunno if this might have been Homophobia or assuming I was a child molsester or likely both. As* of course* all gay men (I am not gay) are pedophiles. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

One day outside the Federal building here in San Jose a single-mom-looking mom was sitting looking at her phone, ear buds in. Her little girl was playing on the Light Rail tracks. Here came the train, the driver was ringing his bell like crazy I could see the fear in his eyes as he knew there was no way he could stop the train in time. I grabbed the little girl (4? 5?) by her arm and put her in front of Mom. Mom then glared at me, and ran over to the Federal Security dude, and was yelling at him, in anger, and pointing at me. I just got out of there.

In other words, she wanted him to arrest me for touching her little girl, it would have been better for her child to be smashed into paste rather than have a “strange man” touch her. :eek: :mad: :frowning: :rolleyes: