I hope I’m not spelling it wrong and that I’m not treading on the sex thread but I’m really curious.
I was almost there on 2 occasions. Once, a phone rang and the boyfriend who was in town was coming over (major letdown), another time I thought it would develop but other events got in the way.
So, have you really done it? If so, what were the circumstances? (where were you, what was the relation) I don’t care if it’s FFM, MMF, FFF, MMM. Was it as good as all of us fantasize about? Did it affect your relationship if a SO was involved?
A couple of times, back when I lived in Houston, with a couple of, er, professional ladies I knew at the time. Despite being a paid performance, it was hot, hot, hot.
A former girlfriend once let slip that she’d be interested in Ugandan activities with me and the guy I was sharing an aprtment with at the time, but we never did work out the logistics.
I’m not sure if this qualifies or not… certainly the two ladies involved never touched each other. They were roommates in the dorm where I spent my freshman year of college. I have tried and tried to remember how we came to make the sign of the triple-gilled aardvark, to no avail.
Anyway, it was a threesome in the sense that there were three of us, but there was no point at which all three of us were having sex at the same time. It was more like they were taking turns using me (to my everlasting gratitude).
I’d have to say it was not as much fun as I would have predicted. Don’t get me wrong, it was LOTS of fun… but afterwards, I felt oddly melancholy. It’s like, they picked me for this little romp… but it’s just because I was handy, I think. Not because of any special qualities I had. I know guys aren’t supposed to care about that kind of stuff - the equation is supposed to be, “sex=good” — and I don’t regret doing it, but the emotional connection wasn’t there.
(on subsequent occasions I had sex with both of them separately, but we never all got together at once again.)
I’ve done it a few times in various combinations. My circle of friends was pretty free-wheeling about sex. It was mostly friendly and playful rather than intense.
A couple of times. Nice, but kinda awkward, too. I found myself thinking more about making sure the girls were getting equal attention, and less about the sex. That took me out of the “moment”. Also, in once case, my girlfriend at the time had just realized she was a lesbian, and she used a three-way to get into the pants of a girl for whom she was planning on leaving me.
I will tell you that it was rather spontaneous. I don’t know if the two people I was with planned it or not. I was really excited at first but it became a bit awkward. By the time we were finished I felt that threesomes weren’t everything they were advertised to be. Subsequent social meetings with the couple were a bit strained because I couldn’t stop picturing them naked!
Now, this doesn’t mean that you wouldn’t have a good time, Oblong, if the chance presented itself to you. I think that a threesome really requires a strong foundation of trust and attraction. If anyone in the party isn’t secure with themselves and the other people, it won’t be enjoyable.
Me and “Bjorn and Ilsa.” I have no idea what their real names were. They were a Scandinavian couple I met at Club Orient on St. Martin. They didn’t speak much English, I didn’t speak much of whatever Scandinavian language they were speaking - not that it mattered much in the long run. It was fun, but a little unfulfilling. Sort of like junkfood sex, I guess.
I’ve been in one threesome, but there was no actual sex. Just lots of hands, and some mouths. The emotional attachment wasn’t really there other than that I had deep respect for both of the others involved. But I didn’t love either of them or anything like that.
Me and a couple friends went to a gay/lesbian dance club. I saw a girl that I used to go to high school with, we talked for a little while then her girlfriend came back from the bar. She introduced me and we all three made small talk for awhile, then I went to catch back up with my friends.
Right before last call is announced I’m at the bar getting another drink, when the girlfriend comes up and says, “want to go home with us tonight”
I was just barely able to respond by simply saying “ok”
I found it to be highly erotic in a funny playful way, and after a short period of time we found our rythm in different positions, it happened a couple times after that with the same girls.
Eventually the girls broke-up, I stayed in touch with the girl I knew from school, we called each other whenever we got bored and horny for awhile then it fizzled out.
All in all, it was worth it, that was one my preadolesent dream, and it actually came true.
The first time - way back in college - was kind of a let-down because the girl was more interested in the other guy than me, even if it was some pretty kinky fun.
The second time, about three weeks ago, was far better, since it was something we’d always talked about in college but never really had the gumption to do until now. It’s nice to know a girl you favour likes you almost as much as she likes her husband.
I had one once with my ex-GF and her roommate, it was a bit awkward at first, figgering out who was doing what to whom and when, but it all worked out in the end, so to speak. Although, I did end up with the clap.
Her new realtionship didn’t last long, but we never got back together. Last I heard she was shacked-up with some emotionally abusive woman in Baltimore.
